Out buying more baby clothes Ffs
I noticed that. Thought it was quite unkind.I think it’s so damaging when new instamums do q&a’s. Your baby is 4 weeks old. Feel sorry for the woman who asked her if Lennie is crying all the time because her 3 week old does to get a smug response like that.
Why can’t women just ask their hv’s with years of experience with 100s of babies instead of a random on the internet with 4 weeks of experience with 1 baby.
Poor woman, her baby has probably got colic or something. It’s got nothing to do with routine/how good a mum you are when it comes to babies crying, especially when they’re so little they just cry! Wish she’d said something nice to comfort the poor lass.I noticed that. Thought it was quite unkind.
Same here! It doesn’t help the fact she shares literally EVERYTHING .. well, the good bits that’s the problem with these insta twats, even though my kids are older now I see all these ‘mummy blogger type’ and I eye roll so hard, they must make women feel so tit about themselves, they will show the good bits but that’s probably it.I really like Steph. I do think she’s been very lucky with little Lennie though. My first baby had colic and it was hell on earth. There was no way I was getting into any sort of routine like the one she has with Lennie. My house looked like a bomb had gone off for months. I do feel as though if I’d seen Steph’s insta account whilst in the throes of newborn life with my eldest, I’d have felt a bit like a failure but that’s my prerogative and insecurities.
I do like her though. I think she’s genuine and candid about what goes on in her life. She just so happens to have a fairly placid baby and that’s the luck of the draw. I’d like to think that if she had a baby with colic or if she was struggling that she’d feel like she could be honest about the reality of that.Same here! It doesn’t help the fact she shares literally EVERYTHING .. well, the good bits that’s the problem with these insta twats, even though my kids are older now I see all these ‘mummy blogger type’ and I eye roll so hard, they must make women feel so tit about themselves, they will show the good bits but that’s probably it.
Agree. You have to take the rough with the smooth.Ugh I’m so sick of insta mums banging on about negativity. We’ve all got kids and it’s bleeping hard and amazing and we like to talk about it!
You can’t just tell your followers to shut up and listen.
That poor lady having to deal with all that sadness in her life.She’s deleted all the comments on that post. I feel actually sorry for that lady she wasn’t actually trolling and one of her comments quite eloquently explained why she found some of the stuff Steph posts harmful. She also said she’d lost 3 full term babies and her followers were being absolutely vile to her!
This is the thing with these insta mums, I don’t know if you follow parttimeworkingmummy but she put something on about spending the day with her husband and someone said u spend quite a bit of time away from your kids - all the huns attacked her massively and she just sat and let it happen.. it’s like if you have an open profile and you’re sharing your life on it, you’re going to get both positive and negative and not everyone’s going to agree with u, and they hate it!She’s deleted all the comments on that post. I feel actually sorry for that lady she wasn’t actually trolling and one of her comments quite eloquently explained why she found some of the stuff Steph posts harmful. She also said she’d lost 3 full term babies and her followers were being absolutely vile to her!