they should've completely moved him away and explained that 'it's Nazs birthday so she blows out the candles, when ots your birthday you can too!'It's always the littlest kids in a family of 6+ kids that end up being so spoiled. I do feel bad for Naz. Disco is 3 now, he's old enough to be taught that when it's not his birthday he's not the one that gets to blow out the candles. That is infuriating.
I know some families let little ones help but the key word there is HELP. They aren't standing in front of the cake but off to the side somewhere for instance where they feel a part of it but actually aren't.