In my opinion..........She’s his mum,
she’s allowed to feel how she feels, you don’t really have the right to say she can‘t feel the way she does about you and your child, however unfair it is.
But this isn’t your argument, this is between your partner and his mum, if you eventually marry and have kids then she’s made a very uncomfortable bed for herself when you’re the mother of her grandchild.
but its all in his court, he’s gonna need to be the one to step up and speak to her on your behalf, or explain to you why he’s ok with the arrangement as it is right now.
To be honest I’d be more annoyed at him for accepting this arrangement than I would at his mum.
just my opinion
she’s allowed to feel how she feels, you don’t really have the right to say she can‘t feel the way she does about you and your child, however unfair it is.
But this isn’t your argument, this is between your partner and his mum, if you eventually marry and have kids then she’s made a very uncomfortable bed for herself when you’re the mother of her grandchild.
but its all in his court, he’s gonna need to be the one to step up and speak to her on your behalf, or explain to you why he’s ok with the arrangement as it is right now.
To be honest I’d be more annoyed at him for accepting this arrangement than I would at his mum.
just my opinion