Hello!
Myself and my partner have been together for just over a year and it was not until this year that he stopped contact with his previous girlfriend. They had been together for six years and broke up in 2017. She didn’t take the break up very well but they remained good friends (they weren’t engaged and had no kids together) we’re all between the ages of 23 and 25.
I was not happy about them being friendly with each other as he still had phone calls with her and meet up for a coffee plans. Anything he’d post on social media, she’d like it straight away unless it was something that had me featured in it. I warned him that I thought she still clearly had a big thing for him but he insisted she didn’t as any time he’d want to get back together with her she’d say no. I basically gave him an ultimatum and felt really out of order about it because I believed him that they were just friends, I just didn’t want her lingering over us for the rest of our relationship.
at the start of this year, He told her that he didn’t want contact with her anymore and she basically saw it as an opportunity to confess her undying love for him but he told her it would never happen and she went in a mood and took it upon herself to message his mother to complain about this decision! His mother of course took her side and I look like the bad person.
His brother recently had a baby and she of course has stuck her nose into it and has been visiting and overly friendly with his family and has been non stop messaging my boyfriend again about the newborn.
Has anybody else got similar stories to this? All my friends think it’s bizarre and until he got rid of her (or tried to) I felt like I was in a three way relationship!
Myself and my partner have been together for just over a year and it was not until this year that he stopped contact with his previous girlfriend. They had been together for six years and broke up in 2017. She didn’t take the break up very well but they remained good friends (they weren’t engaged and had no kids together) we’re all between the ages of 23 and 25.
I was not happy about them being friendly with each other as he still had phone calls with her and meet up for a coffee plans. Anything he’d post on social media, she’d like it straight away unless it was something that had me featured in it. I warned him that I thought she still clearly had a big thing for him but he insisted she didn’t as any time he’d want to get back together with her she’d say no. I basically gave him an ultimatum and felt really out of order about it because I believed him that they were just friends, I just didn’t want her lingering over us for the rest of our relationship.
at the start of this year, He told her that he didn’t want contact with her anymore and she basically saw it as an opportunity to confess her undying love for him but he told her it would never happen and she went in a mood and took it upon herself to message his mother to complain about this decision! His mother of course took her side and I look like the bad person.
His brother recently had a baby and she of course has stuck her nose into it and has been visiting and overly friendly with his family and has been non stop messaging my boyfriend again about the newborn.
Has anybody else got similar stories to this? All my friends think it’s bizarre and until he got rid of her (or tried to) I felt like I was in a three way relationship!