He was going with Jess' friend and her friend was seeing him on and off for years, and they were out all the time, thats why she said met him through a friend, they hid it from her for ages. Hes about 35, 36. Matts just a yes man, always was. He dumped his best friend because he wasn't up to jess and her families standards, matt himself barely was. The whole family act like royalty, its bizarre. Boys all big drug users, the girls are just look down the nose types. Strange strange family. Would not be well liked around carlow Town at all