Get rid ! OMG.
I dated a guy once who was super cute but I had my doubts about his behaviour. One night we were at a pub and he disappeared outside. I went to follow him and he was outside taking a leak against a wall! This is when there were perfectly good toilets. As I approached he turned and aimed it at me and laughed hysterically. Dumped him there & then. I later found out from his mother she had woken up at 3am to find him so drunk he was taking a leak in his bedroom.
Years have since passed and he's been married twice, had kids, they've both left him & now his life is a mess & he's struggling for access. Dated another guy after him who used a pub toilet and left the door open so all could see. Left him too (both these guys had other issues so that's why too) Turns out he is also a major douchebag to his gf, when she was sick in hospital he was out seeing other women, later ditched her and has had a stream of women, breaking each ones heart.
I'm now with a great guy who would rather die than do anything disrespectful, and even tho it has its up and downs due to his job it's nothing like those dudes!
If you're writing about it, u know the answer. Ditch him & fast, cus this guy is going to be a pain in the butt for the rest of your days! He has mental issues. No normal, healthy man would dream of doing anything like that (without ur permission!) trust me.