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So last week a YouTuber I follow on insta posted a major game of thrones spoiler, as a massive fan of the series I sent a dm asking if they would please post a warning next time as I hadn’t seen that episode yet. My message was polite and certainly not rude. Anyway shortly after she posted a screen shot of my message to her stories and also a big rant saying how rude I was and how dare anyone feel entitled to tell her what to do on her own instagram, and how she doesn’t aim to please anyone. Also saying how I should keep up with the series like everyone else has to.
I sent another dm explaining how my message wasn’t meant to be rude and I was sorry if it came across that way and the reason I couldn’t keep up was because I was pregnant and in hospital with a nephrostomy tube and kidney infection. I explained how I had followed her a long time and certainly didn’t intend to offend her as I enjoyed watching her and her lovely family. Well the result of that message was me being blocked by her. While in hospital my waters went and with me being only 19 weeks pregnant I have sadly lost my baby.
One of the main reasons I followed this lady was because I have had a couple of miscarriages previously and she too has experienced baby loss so I found her posts on how to cope with the emotions really helpful, which made being blocked by her even more hurtful. I really felt a connection to a lot of what she said, and would of found her content even more helpful with everything I am going through right now.
Sorry this isn’t really anything to do with Mrs Meldrum, I guess the only relevance is that it goes to show that none of these mummy vloggers are your friend and they don’t give a damn about your feelings. Sorry for the lost post, just felt good to get things off my chest.
I sent another dm explaining how my message wasn’t meant to be rude and I was sorry if it came across that way and the reason I couldn’t keep up was because I was pregnant and in hospital with a nephrostomy tube and kidney infection. I explained how I had followed her a long time and certainly didn’t intend to offend her as I enjoyed watching her and her lovely family. Well the result of that message was me being blocked by her. While in hospital my waters went and with me being only 19 weeks pregnant I have sadly lost my baby.
One of the main reasons I followed this lady was because I have had a couple of miscarriages previously and she too has experienced baby loss so I found her posts on how to cope with the emotions really helpful, which made being blocked by her even more hurtful. I really felt a connection to a lot of what she said, and would of found her content even more helpful with everything I am going through right now.
Sorry this isn’t really anything to do with Mrs Meldrum, I guess the only relevance is that it goes to show that none of these mummy vloggers are your friend and they don’t give a damn about your feelings. Sorry for the lost post, just felt good to get things off my chest.