FitiverMin
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Sorry for worrying anyone on here. I’ve spoken to a nurse and am feeling a bit better. Again I’m really sorry for posting my problems here and worrying people I was just desperate xxx
Absolute best comment of the day! ????????I would rather use my spare 700k to buy a house no one had been murdered in.
But I’m fussy like that.
Oh bore off Karen Cannon you patronising old goat.?Really ?? Are you sure You know the house and area .....It's stunning. A small development of very exclusive houses. All set in quite large plots. Some young familys there and some older people too. Surrounded by mature woodland and walks. I would definitely live there if had a spare 700 grand ! Its also more exclusive because of it being walking distance to town/village and the school catchment. Where they used to live was a cute starter sort of house, thrown up quickly and no where near the same standard of build ( as anyone local would know ) right on an very busy road. Completely different kettle of fish. You wouldn't want to stay there.
Thank you for this and I have managed to speak to a mental health professional who has helped me through this crisis. Private therapy is looking like the only way but it’s going to break my already depleted bank for sure. It means a lot that folk here have been thinking of me; vile trolls we definitely aren’t xBefore I catch up I just wanted to reach out to @fitevermin I’m not sure if you’ve posted again. But I hope you’ve been able to talk to someone you trust.
I’m sorry you’re going through this.
And I’m sorry to read of other people’s experiences as well. Mental illness may not discriminate but if you’re less fortunate and don’t have the money for things like private therapy, a gym membership or even a good support network close by.
Thinking of you all.
I think (without sounding patronising) that it took a lot of strength to speak about your crisis. I'm local to Aberdeen and if ever anyone needs a cuppa and a chat my kettles always on for my fellow Tattlers.I think anyone who’s struggling needs to read this.
Oh and seeing as you brought it up, the mature woodland won’t stay beautiful for much longer if the Meldrums keep dumping their garden waste in it, just like they did in their old house, on land that didn’t belong to them, rather than creating a compost heap in their own garden or bagging it and taking it to the tip like other normal folk do that care about their surroundings and other people’s property that doesn’t belong to them?Really ?? Are you sure You know the house and area .....It's stunning. A small development of very exclusive houses. All set in quite large plots. Some young familys there and some older people too. Surrounded by mature woodland and walks. I would definitely live there if had a spare 700 grand ! Its also more exclusive because of it being walking distance to town/village and the school catchment. Where they used to live was a cute starter sort of house, thrown up quickly and no where near the same standard of build ( as anyone local would know ) right on an very busy road. Completely different kettle of fish. You wouldn't want to stay there.
This means so much to me. You guys are amazing. Everything just came to a head for me, but I’m glad I spoke up about how I was feeling xxxSo good to hear from you. Well done for speaking to someone. Don’t apologise. Sharing how you feel is the right thing to do. Look after yourself and take one step at a time. You’ve got friends in us x
Really ?? Are you sure You know the house and area .....It's stunning. A small development of very exclusive houses. All set in quite large plots. Some young familys there and some older people too. Surrounded by mature woodland and walks. I would definitely live there if had a spare 700 grand ! Its also more exclusive because of it being walking distance to town/village and the school catchment. Where they used to live was a cute starter sort of house, thrown up quickly and no where near the same standard of build ( as anyone local would know ) right on an very busy road. Completely different kettle of fish. You wouldn't want to stay there.
These threads are going by really quickly.