Emma if you’re reading this. Stop living your life for the gram. How many walks have you been on since you gave birth? And then you’re exhausted. You are in such an unusual position where no one has to leave the house atm. Every new mums dream! You are not empowering anyone, least of all yourself. Those older girls need you to put down your phone and spend time with them, like actual proper time, without a phone shoved in their faces. You have money, stop taking freebies and maybe do giveaways to your large following instead. Encourage the companies that approach you to help those that need it. Stop shouting out massive accounts hoping to reach that level, remember the little local accounts that have supported you from the start.