Did she though? I’ve been following her for years too and really don’t get the impression she’s in London or at events night after night after night. It is good to remember that social media is just one aspect of people’s lives. We may get the impression we know more about people who we see on Instagram often but it really is massively filtered and curated. We can’t know what the insides of anyone’s life is like unless you bear first hand witness to it.While I respect your opinion, it is Clemmie herself that has portrayed the absent mother characterisation by declaring she's rarely present for bedtime, attending event after event at evenings and weekends and choosing to be absent.
I therefore fully understand how people can reach the conclusion that she should shut down social media and focus on her children.