Mia Jeal #7 Started college, saving for sperm. Placing our bets she quits in the first term

[Itsflurrie_]

I never post on here but I am so concerned.
Not only does she show symptoms of what I think is BPD (I’m not diagnosing her btw) but now she’s thinking of nursing after complaining about 2 8 hour days at college?
I commented this and another comment on her last video in absolute love and kindness.
I’m concerned. I’m concerned of her fast changing obsessions and fixations, I’m concerned about her inability to commit to any decision she makes, I’m concerned about her mental health and well-being and I’m concerned about her naivety of what the real world is like.
Mia if you read this this is not hate. I want you to have a successful career and be brilliant at it but please get help if you’re struggling mentally, research things and work on your expectations because you’re being very unrealistic. If you want to go into nursing, go for it but not only do you need to improve your work ethic but you need to be careful what you post online because they go through EVERYTHING.
I’ve never felt so much second hand worry and upset over a person I don’t know. Please take on board what I’ve said. I see these symptoms every day. Please get tested for BPD and be realistic about your career.

 

[Kat5998]

I regret subscribing to her Snapchat again

 

[Gee_whip]

Why is Mabel having her lunch in mias room? Even prisoners get let out of their rooms at lunchtime I don’t understand how she couldn’t bring her to the kitchen for 5-10 mins in her own family home. This is just such a strange way to live. Also I don’t see how Mia claiming the free childcare she’s entitled to through college is any different from a person on benefits claiming support they’re entitled to, which Mia shows such disdain for. Both Are paid for by the government using tax payers money. Something she’d know if she had any brains or life experience. The problem with someone being young dumb and uneducated and having a forum like YouTube Is they can spout ignorant Crap to impressionable viewers

 

[josefinaosterlund]

I never post on here but I am so concerned.
Not only does she show symptoms of what I think is BPD (I’m not diagnosing her btw) but now she’s thinking of nursing after complaining about 2 8 hour days at college?
I commented this and another comment on her last video in absolute love and kindness.
I’m concerned. I’m concerned of her fast changing obsessions and fixations, I’m concerned about her inability to commit to any decision she makes, I’m concerned about her mental health and well-being and I’m concerned about her naivety of what the real world is like.
Mia if you read this this is not hate. I want you to have a successful career and be brilliant at it but please get help if you’re struggling mentally, research things and work on your expectations because you’re being very unrealistic. If you want to go into nursing, go for it but not only do you need to improve your work ethic but you need to be careful what you post online because they go through EVERYTHING.
I’ve never felt so much second hand worry and upset over a person I don’t know. Please take on board what I’ve said. I see these symptoms every day. Please get tested for BPD and be realistic about your career.

I have BPD, to me Mia is becoming an obvious textbook case. Don’t want to make an armchair diagnosis but from what she shares that’s how I feel

 

[Kat5998]

I just had this advert on Facebook...

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[laynelo_]

Her Harry Potter obsession is just outright concerning now, yes everybody has films/characters fictional things they like but adoring it SO MUCH to the point that it becomes a part of your personality is just not normal. Her instagram stories and tiktoks are so beyond obnoxious with the constant fan girling, it’s so child-like too.

 

[mickeyg]

Just watched itsjustkeira college morning routine and in comparison to Mia, her morning is a lot more organised and she wakes up a lot earlier so she can still interact and play with Oskar. Mia should make time in the morning to still play and properly feed Mable instead of leaving her on the floor to play by herself and eat

 

[Larstark801]

I never post on here but I am so concerned.
Not only does she show symptoms of what I think is BPD (I’m not diagnosing her btw) but now she’s thinking of nursing after complaining about 2 8 hour days at college?
I commented this and another comment on her last video in absolute love and kindness.
I’m concerned. I’m concerned of her fast changing obsessions and fixations, I’m concerned about her inability to commit to any decision she makes, I’m concerned about her mental health and well-being and I’m concerned about her naivety of what the real world is like.
Mia if you read this this is not hate. I want you to have a successful career and be brilliant at it but please get help if you’re struggling mentally, research things and work on your expectations because you’re being very unrealistic. If you want to go into nursing, go for it but not only do you need to improve your work ethic but you need to be careful what you post online because they go through EVERYTHING.
I’ve never felt so much second hand worry and upset over a person I don’t know. Please take on board what I’ve said. I see these symptoms every day. Please get tested for BPD and be realistic about your career.

Hopping on to say I have BPD and have known lots of people on the spectrum of it too, and honestly from her online persona I can see traits for sure. Either way, I hope she gets the help as it seems she needs some guidance, as it is so hard to live with and adjust your instincts to be successful and happy!

 

[Ailia]

Just watched itsjustkeira college morning routine and in comparison to Mia, her morning is a lot more organised and she wakes up a lot earlier so she can still interact and play with Oskar. Mia should make time in the morning to still play and properly feed Mable instead of leaving her on the floor to play by herself and eat

I keep seeing people comment saying Keira and Mia should collab but honestly Mia is waaaaay too bitchy to collab with anyone other than Beth, I don’t actually think she really has any friends and I honestly thinks it’s down to her attitude. The whole Harry Potter is just so she can be seen as relatable on TikTok as that’s where she thinks she’s popular but in reality she just isn’t

 

[lottie23]

I really don’t think she has BPD, she’s just behaving like any other 17 year old. She’s immature, petulant, selfish, volatile and doesn’t know what she wants to do with her life - but haven’t we all been there?

She’s a year behind her school friends, which is bound to result in some feeling of FOMO. She won’t be going to university when her friends go which, again, will contribute to that feeling of missing out. They’ll be moving into their own (student) houses by the time they’re 19, which’ll probably be years before Mia achieves that (but she wants that independence more than anything, as per her videos). She’s also got a child in tow and, whilst I know she loves her daughter, it’s bound to have some impact on her mental state. She’s still so, so young and her direction in life is so different to that of her peers. But as far as BPD goes, there’s no way she’s got that, she’s just understandably lost and confused.

 

[josefinaosterlund]

I really don’t think she has BPD, she’s just behaving like any other 17 year old. She’s immature, petulant, selfish, volatile and doesn’t know what she wants to do with her life - but haven’t we all been there?

She’s a year behind her school friends, which is bound to result in some feeling of FOMO. She won’t be going to university when her friends go which, again, will contribute to that feeling of missing out. They’ll be moving into their own (student) houses by the time they’re 19, which’ll probably be years before Mia achieves that (but she wants that independence more than anything, as per her videos). She’s also got a child in tow and, whilst I know she loves her daughter, it’s bound to have some impact on her mental state. She’s still so, so young and her direction in life is so different to that of her peers. But as far as BPD goes, there’s no way she’s got that, she’s just understandably lost and confused.

Her obsessive and seemingly sporadic behaviour is a dead giveaway of BPD in my opinion. She reminds me exactly of myself when I was 17 and I know how badly I was suffering with no idea

 

[lottie23]

Her obsessive and seemingly sporadic behaviour is a dead giveaway of BPD in my opinion. She reminds me exactly of myself when I was 17 and I know how badly I was suffering with no idea

I’m sorry you experienced that. But with regards to Mia, I really don’t think she has BPD. Her “obsessions” always align with the latest TikTok trends. The other month it was witchcraft/spirituality, now it’s Draco Malfoy/Harry Potter. It’s either for engagement or she’s being a typical impressionable teenager and following the trends.

 

[Itsflurrie_]

Like I said, I’m not diagnosing. But as someone who works in the mental health field and specialises in child and adolescents, I see symptoms.

 

[josefinaosterlund]

I’m sorry you experienced that. But with regards to Mia, I really don’t think she has BPD. Her “obsessions” always align with the latest TikTok trends. The other month it was witchcraft/spirituality, now it’s Draco Malfoy/Harry Potter. It’s either for engagement or she’s being a typical impressionable teenager and following the trends.

I agree with you but then she also takes it a million steps further and buys just about everything she can to do with these trends, which most people on TIkTok probably won’t do. How much money did she spend on books and equipment for spirituality, just to not ever mention it again a month later? May not be BPD but it certainty isn’t healthy

 

[GoldenGoss18]

I personally think Mia suffers from a very immature and bratty mindset aswell as slight postnatal depression! No one here wants to diagnose her atall but we all agree she needs some help! How can no one around her see that she could do with some support.

 

[lottie23]

I agree with you but then she also takes it a million steps further and buys just about everything she can to do with these trends, which most people on TIkTok probably won’t do. How much money did she spend on books and equipment for spirituality, just to not ever mention it again a month later? May not be BPD but it certainty isn’t healthy

I don’t think we know enough to judge whether her interests are healthy or not. But, if her videos are anything to go by, she clearly has no social life. Jumping on TikTok “trends” therefore compensates for that, surely? Manchester Primark has a whole floor dedicated to Harry Potter and Pandora has a HP range, so I daren’t imagine she’s going out of her way to obsess over it outside of TikTok. It’s been marketed specifically towards teenage girls as of late Obviously this is just incredibly pedantic, and you’re entitled to your opinion as much as I am, but all I’m seeing is a somewhat isolated teenage girl clinging to social media trends

 

[Blue Rose]

The contrast between Mia and itsjustkiera is insane. You wouldn’t think the latter is actually a whole school year younger. I have a feeling Kiera (although admittedly I haven’t watched that much of her videos) seems to have taken to parenting as well because she has younger siblings who she seems to be quite close to so is used to looking after young children. Were as Mia’s sisters not that much younger and even if Mia had a younger sibling I can’t imagine her getting along with them that well. I don’t mean to sound rude, but Mia already barely plays with Mabel and only does because she’s her child so I doubt she’d be willing to care for another child, especially since most older siblings can be quite mean to their younger ones (ngl I’ve been pretty mean to mine). Obviously not everyone who doesn’t have younger siblings won’t be like Mia is with Mabel, but I do think this might be a factor in the difference between her and Kiera. Kiera probably sees everyday her parents having to look after young kids and likely helped out so understood what being a parent was like, were as looking back to when Mia was pregnant she did only seem prepared for when Mabel was a newborn (maybe why she’s lost interest in her). I do also think Kiera has a much nicer personality, she seems genuinely caring and probably takes advice from those around her and you can see that in the way she interacts with her son.

 

[Lauren1994]

Borderline personality disorder is a condition that affects how you think, feel and interact with other people.

Symptoms of borderline personality include being emotionally unstable, having upsetting thoughts and acting without thinking.

The cause of borderline personality disorder is unclear. It's been linked to traumatic events during childhood, such as neglect or abuse.

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i got this from online and in my opinion I don’t think mia is emotionally unstable, she’s just a drama queen who loves the attention. I feel that if she was emotionally unstable she wouldn’t be posting videos of her being happy and having a “glow up” once her cat died after claiming she was heartbroken from it. I think she’d constantly have to re do parts of her videos from breaking down in tears but it doesn’t look like mia edits much of her videos. I think she does have upsetting thoughts but I think about 99% of teenagers do, especially people who have just had an unplanned baby where their life has completely changed. I don’t think she acts without thinking either, I think she’s just not wise and a little bit stupid with some of the stuff she posts (like the writing she stole from someone else when Landon died). She only ever deletes videos or comments when she gets backlash otherwise everything she posts would stay up and if she acts without thinking she’d be constantly deleting her mistakes (while still making others).

not that all BPD is caused by abuse or something from someone’s childhood but I do feel like the thing with Mia and her dad isn’t fully true, like I said before on here.. I think it’s more her dad being strict with her and Mia rebelling against him for some type of attention. She said before that when someone tells her to do something she’s most likely to do the opposite because she doesn’t like being told what to do, if her dad hit her in any way I think it was to teach her a lesson when she gave backchat (even though I could be wrong). Apart from Mia not getting on with her dad she seems to have a somewhat decent childhood as she could pick and choose who she lived with (between her mum and dad) and she got on fine with her mum and sister.


Some symptoms of BPD are:

• Fear of abandonment. People with BPD are often terrified of being abandoned or left alone.
• Unstable relationships.
• Unclear or shifting self-image.
• Impulsive, self-destructive behaviors.
• Self-harm.
• Extreme emotional swings.
• Chronic feelings of emptiness.
• Explosive anger.

Mia has stated many times that she would prefer to be alone and doesn’t want a future partner, she also wants to move out ASAP which will mean living alone with her child(ren).

She’s definitely had unstable relationships with her dad and mabels dad.. obviously we don’t know but I think the one with her dad may be her fault because of her attitude. The one with her ex was basically him using her for sex and then Mia never saying a good word about him since (which is understandable but it’s not much of a relationship).

Unclear or shifting self-image when you have BPD, your sense of self is typically unstable. Sometimes you may feel good about yourself, but other times you hate yourself, or even view yourself as evil. You probably don't have a clear idea of who you are or what you want in life. (Got from the Internet) ... I can completely see this in mia, she doesn’t admit she dislikes herself but it’s clear she does or she wouldn’t constantly change the way she looks. She’s also been very self conscious about her weight.

She is impulsive with certain things but I don’t believe she’s completely self destructive. I do think she would happily look after herself if she had more money and bought things that make her happy (like a bathroom decorated how she wants it with all her stuff in) but she chooses not to wash sometimes and blames it on being a mum aka being busy but in reality I think she’s just a little lazy at times (like most teenagers).

No one knows if mia self harms but she wears revealing clothes and doesn’t have visible cuts/burns. I think mia said she used to self harm (not completely sure though).

I don’t think mia has extreme emotional swings. She also doesn’t have severe highs and lows when it comes to her moods. I think she’s very unhappy in life but doesn’t want to seem vulnerable so she acts as though she’s happy and has her life completely together (which we all know is far from the truth).

I do think mia gets lonely but I don’t think she feels completely empty. When she has the chance she does meet her “mum friends” I think the more lonely mia feels the less people she’d see.

I’ve seen mia roll her eyes and get fed up of Mabel but I’ve never seen her get really angry towards her, she’s never shouted at her, gone to do something then stopped or completely given up with her because she’s that frustrated with her. I actually admire her for this as this is one thing I’ve noticed about her that is a positive towards her child.

 

[elliewilliamsx]

I know some people have been talking about Mia possibly having BPD. As a teenage girl just like Mia, I think it’s normal to obsess over things, I do it myself! However not quite to the same extent, I don’t “fall in love” with characters, that’s just weird but I honestly don’t think she has it, I think she’s just jumping on a trend.

 

[RosePetals]

I think she’s just lonely and her life is very different to the popular, rich and famous YouTuber she tries to portray so she bullshits her way onto popular bandwagons to try to look cool.

Realistically she’s got one or two mum friends she’s met like twice and that’s it