Couldn’t agree with this more
I don’t think she’s neglecting Mabel in that she’s fed, clean etc. However there’s no denying that she does force Mabel into her routine, rather than listening to cues, she’s shown time and time again that she’d rather put Mabel in the jumperoo so she can play animal crossing or do her nails. There definitely has been a level of emotional neglect where she rarely spent any time one on one with Mabel playing, stimulating and enjoying her - without making her watch her adult tv (twilight) or making tik toks. Things are certainly getting better as she is doing more and taking our criticism, but there’s still room to improve (one activity of reading a couple books isn’t exactly much) and she still makes questionable parenting choices! It’s not just about making sure they’re fed and not crying in my opinion anyway
Babies definitely shouldn’t be left days without milk.. teething or not.. they need atleast 500ml a day
also purée shouldn’t be given to substitute milk unless they have a milk protein allergy, milk has the nutrients they need.. veg and gravy or pasta with hidden veg sauce isn’t enough at Mabels age. Plus she was spitting out her food she doesn’t even want solids lmao