Omg yes! I could’ve started this thread! As I’m nearing my later 40’s, I’m beginning to think about all those self-help books out there...like for ppl in their 40’s w/ aging parents, etc. I’ve been really going thru it for the past cpl of yrs w/ my mother’s illness, on top of my past cancer worries, Fibro & the daily on-slaught of chronic pain. Whew. Prayers going out to all humans. lol. Life is rough! And it’s only getting worse! My poor husband, an only child, 2 even more elderly parents, & my MIL is severely ill w/ schizophrenia. She doesn’t even know her own grandkids! And we have to finally figure out where to place her & how to get her out of her home. We need STRENGTH to get thru this storm.