A bit of background, about a year ago I introduced my partner to one of my girlfriends. She's very attractive and not long divorced. After the event he mentioned how nice she is and that he would be interested in learning more about the work she does (they're in a similar area) I never thought much more of it. Then before Xmas I found they had been messaging, I'd looked at his phone for an innocent reason when he was sleeping. I also saw a very flirty draft message he hadn't sent. I confronted him about it, he said he was stupid and delusional but admitted an attraction. I was fuming but basically accepted his word that nothing had ever happened. I've not seen the friend since then as her work is very busy (we used to share a hobby). He brought her up in conversation (about his work) not so long ago and asked if I ever heard from her and I said no, he said it was a shame he had hoped they could collaborate workwise but he wished her well etc. I kind of hoped and thought that would be the last I'd have to think if this but no. Today he got a new phone and as he is tit at tech I had to help him set it up. Of course I see he recently sent her a message. The most recent was this week, I didn't even read it just saw the first line and that it was blueticked but not replied to. I borrowed his phone a few minutes later to put music on, but not really trusting him now I looked again and he'd deleted the message.
Now I'm in a situation where I don't trust him for tit and he knows I've seen and I suspect him but we haven't spoken about it. I don't even care that much if he is cheating or wants to but I wish he would be honest.
Now I'm in a situation where I don't trust him for tit and he knows I've seen and I suspect him but we haven't spoken about it. I don't even care that much if he is cheating or wants to but I wish he would be honest.