We're flying through Lisa threads at the moment though she's doing f*ck all
Excellent thread title by @Dimplesjones
Excellent thread title by @Dimplesjones
I’d say she’s talking about the Wonder weeks calendar that some parents go by, they can nearly predict when sleep will be disrupted & it’s usually at a stage where they go through some changes developmentally so with the girls able to stand in the cot now it will have an effect on them as it’s something new & exciting being able to stand up & watch each other. I’d say it’s tough going with twins in that sense but they all do it at some stage so she needs to get used to it & just ride it out.What's developmentals? I don't have kids. But does she mean the child is developing. Like the adjective not the noun.
6.30 most nightsI didn't catch it but what time is she putting them children to bed maybe that has something to do with it
They are starting to explore more and learn new things like example that they can now pull themselves up and stand holding onto something etc so they two little Messer's were having the crack in the cots the other evening and not ready for sleepWhat's developmentals? I don't have kids. But does she mean the child is developing. Like the adjective not the noun.
Ah now didn't realise it was that early she needs to stretch that a bit I never put a child of mine to bed at 6.30 noone in my family did or even my friends my children were different on bedtimes my first was about 8.30 at that age and my second was between 7.30/8 and that was her whinging from about 7 looking to go but we never put her bed before then . Lovely eveings out she could bring them outside for half hour , 40 mins to tire them out a bit to . But anyways this is normal and Lisa needs to accept thatI’d say she’s talking about the Wonder weeks calendar that some parents go by, they can nearly predict when sleep will be disrupted & it’s usually at a stage where they go through some changes developmentally so with the girls able to stand in the cot now it will have an effect on them as it’s something new & exciting being able to stand up & watch each other. I’d say it’s tough going with twins in that sense but they all do it at some stage so she needs to get used to it & just ride it out.
we’ll probably hear sooner rather than later that she’s put them in separate rooms.
6.30 most nights
Divelopmental is what I’d heard earlierAnd dere developmental tings
I say Lisa used to land to aunt pegs and sit down and that's it or else the mudder was constantly catering to her and the kids and aunt peg let rip on her over it ....wait now she be in aunt pegs today or tomorrowI wonder where is auntie peig these days at the beginning it was their only outing a quick walk down to auntie peigs. She must have told Lisa afew home truths, there's been no mention of her with months
That's the truth though and I always made sure mine would sleep in a buggy to for when our and about sure at 6.30 bedtime and then only used to the cot for sleep ya wouldn't be able to go anywhere. we have also brought ours abroad since babies and they would sleep in the buggy on night while we were out and aboutI think it’s time to adjust their routine a little. She wants them in a routine that suits her but it’s not working for them anymore. Sometimes we need to fit into our babies routine rather than the other way around. As babies get older it’s normal to need to jiggle times around a bit, both of mine weren’t great sleepers but when we got good nights they didn’t sleep more than 10 hours & they never went to bed before 8pm because they just wouldn’t sleep any earlier. Lisa puts the girls down at 6.30, she seems to sit up late most nights & then the girls are up from early meaning she’s tired more often than not. She hasn’t got the energy for 2 babies now so when they’re fully on the move it will be a disaster. Even if she started moving bedtime out by a few minutes every few days over the next couple of months until she reaches a 7.30 bedtime, she’d still have 2-3 hours to herself every night which is brilliant.
When my youngest goes down for the night I turn my attention to my eldest because it’s the only uninterrupted time I can grab with him, I don’t really get me time but that’s fine, those couple of hours I get with my eldest are more important to me. He’s a preteen so I’m conscious of the fact he might not want Mammy time in a couple more years
She will have to find some other way to dodge work because using them to stay out is the only thing she enjoys about motherhoodI don’t get this one. She went away to have a baby on her own, she had twins. All she seems to do is constantly complain. She seems to have nothing else to focus on. What will we she do when these 2 are 18 and gone?
Yes she lives at home with her parents and 1 brother (he used to be there anyway, she hasn't mentioned him in a while). She has the parents house turned upside down for herself and the twins with stuff everywhereI know what developing means. So she means developmental stages ? Just never heard someone say developmentals. But I don't have babies
Tbh I just saw her page after scs posted her so does she live at home?