And empathy. That's why she so often fails to read the room and her posts come across as insensitive.Re: feeling connected to the series because the young child looks like Grey is so Lily. She has to seek herself in everything or it just doesn't make sense to her. A while back she had earache and she said she could now understand why little kids are in so much pain when they also have earache - she'd never experienced it before so she honestly couldn't relate to someone else's pain. And this is why her content is so rubbish. If she doesn't understand or hasn't experience something then it literally just doesn't exist to her. She has to find a way in which it relates to her no matter how tenuous/inappropriate (see also: BLM and her moles). And she lacks any sort of intelligence/independent thinking/curiosity about the world so her exposure to new experiences is limited to what her friends and family do (which she ultimately has to copy).