While I'm sat at home on NYE (as I'm sure most of us are), I'm reflecting on what sort of year I've had personally and what I want to achieve in 2021.
2020:
* I realised my worth from a thread I posted on here. I ended a 12 year situationship with a man already in a relationship. Tattle helped me to end it for good.
* That I can do certain things I put my mind to. I never thought I was that academically clever yet I received a 1st class degree at the beginning of the year which helped me to get a job role I absolutely love.
* That life is to short. Given everything that's happened with Covid and so many people losing loved ones, it really makes you think about how short life is and how quickly it can be taken away. My brother lost his best friend of 20 years and his soon to be (next year) best man and is really struggling. It makes me want to really grab life by the horns next year.
2021:
* I really need to sort out my health this year. I'm overweight, I can barely look in the mirror and if I don't do it this year, I never will. I plan to start walking every day, eat healthy and calorie count.
* I'd like to progress within my work role.
* I want to do some things for myself. Things that will make me happy instead of pushing myself aside and always putting others before myself.
* Save more money so I can take my son to Disney land in 2022.
What lessons have you learnt this year and what are your goals (if any) for 2021? Happy new year all x
2020:
* I realised my worth from a thread I posted on here. I ended a 12 year situationship with a man already in a relationship. Tattle helped me to end it for good.
* That I can do certain things I put my mind to. I never thought I was that academically clever yet I received a 1st class degree at the beginning of the year which helped me to get a job role I absolutely love.
* That life is to short. Given everything that's happened with Covid and so many people losing loved ones, it really makes you think about how short life is and how quickly it can be taken away. My brother lost his best friend of 20 years and his soon to be (next year) best man and is really struggling. It makes me want to really grab life by the horns next year.
2021:
* I really need to sort out my health this year. I'm overweight, I can barely look in the mirror and if I don't do it this year, I never will. I plan to start walking every day, eat healthy and calorie count.
* I'd like to progress within my work role.
* I want to do some things for myself. Things that will make me happy instead of pushing myself aside and always putting others before myself.
* Save more money so I can take my son to Disney land in 2022.
What lessons have you learnt this year and what are your goals (if any) for 2021? Happy new year all x
I am in the same position - I am extremely overweight and working on it. However, this is the first year I’m not entering a new year hating myself. I genuinely think: I can improve but who I see in the mirror is a good person and I like her. We spend far too long hating ourselves. You are clearly focused, intelligent and successful please don’t put yourself down because of appearance. Although, as a big woman, I do understand the struggle 