ilanaabbi
New member
I’ve been following LC for a few months, more so out of curiosity, and recently came across this thread when she mentioned you in her stories.
I’ve been feeling insecure about the fact that I don’t have (read: can’t afford) long weekends away with my girlfriends in luxury accommodation, or long lunches at fancy restaurants. I’m been questioning if I’m boring or there is something wrong with me because my go-to catch up with a girlfriend is at the park with a coffee or their place for a tea or wine. None of which is scared on social media.
Then I saw Leigh’s post this morning about how necessary and important it is to have a weekend away with your girls and that we should BOOK one in now. I knew her weekend just past was sponsored but in this moment there was no acknowledgment from her, almost implying that she had paid for it.
Then that inadequacy started to creep in, and I realised why. She was telling me in order to have the same cup-filling as she just enjoyed, I needed to go book and pay for it, nevermind that she just had it for free, or sorry, in exchange for a few token #gifted posts.
Safe to say my curiosity is over and my self worth is more important. Unfollowed. Thanks for giving me the strength to do so.
I’ve been feeling insecure about the fact that I don’t have (read: can’t afford) long weekends away with my girlfriends in luxury accommodation, or long lunches at fancy restaurants. I’m been questioning if I’m boring or there is something wrong with me because my go-to catch up with a girlfriend is at the park with a coffee or their place for a tea or wine. None of which is scared on social media.
Then I saw Leigh’s post this morning about how necessary and important it is to have a weekend away with your girls and that we should BOOK one in now. I knew her weekend just past was sponsored but in this moment there was no acknowledgment from her, almost implying that she had paid for it.
Then that inadequacy started to creep in, and I realised why. She was telling me in order to have the same cup-filling as she just enjoyed, I needed to go book and pay for it, nevermind that she just had it for free, or sorry, in exchange for a few token #gifted posts.
Safe to say my curiosity is over and my self worth is more important. Unfollowed. Thanks for giving me the strength to do so.