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How so? Just curious to hear your thoughts
She reminds me of those women that have pretended to be black their entire careers ( despite being white) as it’s benefited them. Complete cultural appropriation.
Also , as a professional I would never dream of providing unsolicited advice online. I would only ever sign post to potential suitable agencies.
These patreons are paying for advice from someone who could be completely unqualified
 
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She’s recently gone on a rant about a couple who got married young and in her opinion the guy has somehow abused the woman into submission to marrying him despite being a massive cheat just because he’s older? How is she allowed to tell so many people her opinion on this like it’s fact when it is not, and it’s damaging. Then there’s her posts about mental health when she’s obviously uneducated on it and just spits bullshit.
 
I’m baffled at her recent post.

Had this lady told her directly that she wasn’t comfortable with the man slapping her in the face?

As someone who’s practiced BDSM for a number of years, that kind of scenario is actually very common. Her ignorance of it and how she tries to imply she knows what she’s talking about shows her stupidity. Slapping, choking and spitting is none of her concern if two adults choose to enact that. There are plenty of men into physical domination and pain.

Do men really look at a meme page and think it’s ok to slap and be rough with a woman without permission? No. It bleeping annoys me how woke she is about everything.
 
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I’m baffled at her recent post.

Had this lady told her directly that she wasn’t comfortable with the man slapping her in the face?

As someone who’s practiced BDSM for a number of years, that kind of scenario is actually very common. Her ignorance of it and how she tries to imply she knows what she’s talking about shows her stupidity. Slapping, choking and spitting is none of her concern if two adults choose to enact that. There are plenty of men into physical domination and pain.

Do men really look at a meme page and think it’s ok to slap and be rough with a woman without permission? No. It bleeping annoys me how woke she is about everything.
I think teenagers are more likely to be talked into that stuff, id imagine thats more the target audience for that one. Porn and how that shapes opinions and expectations of sex etc.
 
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I’m baffled at her recent post.

Had this lady told her directly that she wasn’t comfortable with the man slapping her in the face?

As someone who’s practiced BDSM for a number of years, that kind of scenario is actually very common. Her ignorance of it and how she tries to imply she knows what she’s talking about shows her stupidity. Slapping, choking and spitting is none of her concern if two adults choose to enact that. There are plenty of men into physical domination and pain.

Do men really look at a meme page and think it’s ok to slap and be rough with a woman without permission? No. It bleeping annoys me how woke she is about everything.
She clearly stated it wasn’t about BDSM but how violence is normalised.
 
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She clearly stated it wasn’t about BDSM but how violence is normalised.
Read the comments - someone is giving their perspective and point of view and she’s calling them irritating.

The meme but the video of a woman who’s filming herself literally saying Do it again - she has no context - it’s not up to her to say it’s abuse and BDSM doesn’t come into it. She’s recommended a podcast to said woman where she literally states she knows nothing about it.

I think teenagers are more likely to be talked into that stuff, id imagine thats more the target audience for that one. Porn and how that shapes opinions and expectations of sex etc.
You know I agree, it’s really important to have clear conversations around kink and being clear on boundaries especially as a female.

I don’t agree with her victimising someone filming herself literally saying do it again as abuse when she has very limited understanding of impact play and BDSM as a whole. The video does not add up to the caption for me and I’m so bored of her constant kink shaming and ignorance of it.
 
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I just read the comments. How is she going to laugh off learning about BDSM when she wants to be a sex/love expert ffs 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ You can not agree with it, not approve.. whatever. But understand the basics!?
 
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I just read the comments. How is she going to laugh off learning about BDSM when she wants to be a sex/love expert ffs 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ You can not agree with it, not approve.. whatever. But understand the basics!?
She was so rude to that woman, who was just trying to defend the hoardes of women calling it sick or saying that if you like that, it’s fucked up.

Considering the sheer level of critical comments and captions she dishes out, I expected her to take on a constructive comment and challenge back instead of being a head.

There will be women who read that who now start to believe that why they enjoy and like is wrong and it’s a man who’s victimised her. Cancel her man - she literally doesn’t know what she’s talking about
 
She was so rude to that woman, who was just trying to defend the hoardes of women calling it sick or saying that if you like that, it’s fucked up.

Considering the sheer level of critical comments and captions she dishes out, I expected her to take on a constructive comment and challenge back instead of being a head.
That woman was respectfully putting forward fair point after fair point. Proper childish response from Lala. She could have made a point about BDSM and consent, and the difference that makes ffs.
 
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I unfollowed her ages ago when she stopped doing poll time. I always got the impression she would take followers stories/experiences and use them as her own.
 
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That’s not what she looks like at all - if you’ve seen the photos on here before I wouldn’t even put those photos and her *reveal* one together and say they were even the same person 😂😂 how tragic
 
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She doesn’t have a daughter lol

however that pic is NOT her. She does not look like that at all. And if it is. It’s highly edited/photoshopped

has she actually confirmed that’s her?
 
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I haven’t acknkwledged her existance for a long time. Just saw her name pop up today and saw she has a display pic? Is she not anonymous anymore? Or is that girl on tje backgrounf of her podcasts & in her display pic, not of her??? Confused. Why be anonymous for so long make such a huge fuss about it and then post a pic of urself??
 
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I haven’t acknkwledged her existance for a long time. Just saw her name pop up today and saw she has a display pic? Is she not anonymous anymore? Or is that girl on tje backgrounf of her podcasts & in her display pic, not of her??? Confused. Why be anonymous for so long make such a huge fuss about it and then post a pic of urself??
From what she’s been saying recently she wants a blue tick (🙄) and couldn’t be anonymous to qualify for one I think?
 
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