KeepingKate #5 Begging for help so the baby naps, still running despite a prolapse

[Mavismcfield]

I’ve just seen a comment on another insta (not related to Kate but feel like it’s the kind of thing she would agree with) saying that airlines should have to extend their “2 years of free flights” for the people with babies that haven’t been able to travel or it’s “not fair”. Seriously what is wrong with people?! Why are they so entitled?!
Like airlines won’t have suffered enough through all of this?
It’s not “free flights” like it’s some government incentive, they have to sit on your knee while you pay for your ticket, do you want to go on a 3 hour flight with a 4 year old on your lap?
Some people can never afford to go abroad anyway so is that “fair” for them?
I get that a lot of people will feel cheated over this year, I don’t think there is anyone that hasn’t missed out on things but unfortunately this is a pandemic and we’ve all just had to get on with it

 

[Heybooboo]

Didn’t someone say on here she went to pepa world and the photos were on her Facebook? Plus the christening. She’s done more in lockdown than I’ve done in years

 

[JoeBloggs]

I’ve just seen a comment on another insta (not related to Kate but feel like it’s the kind of thing she would agree with) saying that airlines should have to extend their “2 years of free flights” for the people with babies that haven’t been able to travel or it’s “not fair”. Seriously what is wrong with people?! Why are they so entitled?!
Like airlines won’t have suffered enough through all of this?
It’s not “free flights” like it’s some government incentive, they have to sit on your knee while you pay for your ticket, do you want to go on a 3 hour flight with a 4 year old on your lap?
Some people can never afford to go abroad anyway so is that “fair” for them?
I get that a lot of people will feel cheated over this year, I don’t think there is anyone that hasn’t missed out on things but unfortunately this is a pandemic and we’ve all just had to get on with it

Oh for goodness sake, so many people have missed out on things that they are not going to get back. If you are fortunate to be able to go abroad then go, don't fuss over a free seat for your now 3/4 year old!

 

[NigellaBites]

Didn’t someone say on here she went to pepa world and the photos were on her Facebook? Plus the christening. She’s done more in lockdown than I’ve done in years

Don’t forget getting her lashes done when local restrictions in her area didn’t allow that. Shopping trips to Next with Seannnnnnnnnn’s Mum when she was already bubbling up with her own parents, meeting up with friends one of whom has a medically vulnerable child, travelling up to the Lake District with other households just to go sledging..........

Is she
a) as thick as mince
b) defiant and doesn’t think that rules apply to her
c) both of the above

 

[capriallie]

One of the issues might possibly be that she’s not had any time away just her and her gimpy husband and she couldn’t leave her kids behind with ninny. I think the real issue is she’s had to parent herself and she’s realised it’s hard work. Welcome to the real world love!

She is a self indulgent moron, who needs to get a grip of life!

Lest we forget, when Dave was a baby her and Sean were always having weekends away and going on breaks etc!! She's just annoyed she's been stuck at home with a baby.

 

[HeyLetsGo]

I’ve just seen a comment on another insta (not related to Kate but feel like it’s the kind of thing she would agree with) saying that airlines should have to extend their “2 years of free flights” for the people with babies that haven’t been able to travel or it’s “not fair”. Seriously what is wrong with people?! Why are they so entitled?!
Like airlines won’t have suffered enough through all of this?
It’s not “free flights” like it’s some government incentive, they have to sit on your knee while you pay for your ticket, do you want to go on a 3 hour flight with a 4 year old on your lap?
Some people can never afford to go abroad anyway so is that “fair” for them?
I get that a lot of people will feel cheated over this year, I don’t think there is anyone that hasn’t missed out on things but unfortunately this is a pandemic and we’ve all just had to get on with it

Totally agree with you. A little perspective goes a long way. Look at what you’ve missed out on, and then look at what other people have missed out on in comparison and just shut up.

 

[Queenie25]

Lest we forget, when Dave was a baby her and Sean were always having weekends away and going on breaks etc!! She's just annoyed she's been stuck at home with a baby.

Exactly!

 

[MrsA]

Didn’t she say yesterday that she hadn’t spent more than 2 hours away from Annie but she said she went for a 4 hour hair appt and Annie wouldn’t take a bottle?! I’m assuming travel to and from said appt isn’t included in the four hours because I’m usually at the hairdressers for 4 hours!

 

[Mutley98]

I sent her a message as I stewed on what she said she had ‘lost’ I told her what I had ‘lost’
It wasn’t nasty and it wasn’t for sympathy, I just said think about your audience. I didn’t swear it nor was I rude I simply said you have two beautiful healthy children and you’ve had holidays and more importantly you haven’t lost anyone. I pointed out her maternity leave could’ve been worse and told her about my experience with someone close to me and their maternity leave during lockdown. She didn’t even have the decency to reply just hit the block button which shows how empathetic she is to anyone else. I even said to her it must have been hard for her going through maternity leave in lockdown
Proved to me what an awful self centred person she is and she is educating our children

 

[ChubClubThug]

I sent her a message as I stewed on what she said she had ‘lost’ I told her what I had ‘lost’
It wasn’t nasty and it wasn’t for sympathy, I just said think about your audience. I didn’t swear it nor was I rude I simply said you have two beautiful healthy children and you’ve had holidays and more importantly you haven’t lost anyone. I pointed out her maternity leave could’ve been worse and told her about my experience with someone close to me and their maternity leave during lockdown. She didn’t even have the decency to reply just hit the block button which shows how empathetic she is to anyone else. I even said to her it must have been hard for her going through maternity leave in lockdown
Proved to me what an awful self centred person she is and she is educating our children

She's a witch. She turns on the sweetness when she wants something or a freebie. She knew you were right, so took the cowards route and blocked you. Nice role model. I sincerely hope she quits teaching.

 

[Kerrybutterfly]

I sent her a message as I stewed on what she said she had ‘lost’ I told her what I had ‘lost’
It wasn’t nasty and it wasn’t for sympathy, I just said think about your audience. I didn’t swear it nor was I rude I simply said you have two beautiful healthy children and you’ve had holidays and more importantly you haven’t lost anyone. I pointed out her maternity leave could’ve been worse and told her about my experience with someone close to me and their maternity leave during lockdown. She didn’t even have the decency to reply just hit the block button which shows how empathetic she is to anyone else. I even said to her it must have been hard for her going through maternity leave in lockdown
Proved to me what an awful self centred person she is and she is educating our children

She's not a nice person. You've constructively and kindly offered a different perspective and rather than engaging with you, she blocks you. Think it shows the type of person she is.

 

[shockedbutnot]

Wow I’m in shock.
Well I was until finding this thread.
I literally just messaged her about her story reposting the comparison of Kendall Jenner and the astronaut. And said take a look at Caroline Hirons response... which is don’t have an account saying be kind and then pitting women against eachother.
Instantly blocked. I wasn’t rude or anything and have engaged with Kate on a number of occasions. Feel sorry for her that she hasn’t got the capacity to take on any slightly different points of view. Bye Kate.

 

[MrsD_89]

3lb from pre baby weight? I don’t see it

 

[thisisme20]

Wow I’m in shock.
Well I was until finding this thread.
I literally just messaged her about her story reposting the comparison of Kendall Jenner and the astronaut. And said take a look at Caroline Hirons response... which is don’t have an account saying be kind and then pitting women against eachother.
Instantly blocked. I wasn’t rude or anything and have engaged with Kate on a number of occasions. Feel sorry for her that she hasn’t got the capacity to take on any slightly different points of view. Bye Kate.

She’s a nasty cow.

 

[Mutley98]

Well after the other day me messaging her saying be thankful you are enjoying a child whilst on maternity leave and being blocked I’m not shocked. Imagine having maternity leave without a baby in lockdown. Life with Jessica Louise also moaning this morning about her ‘lost maternity leave’ literally boils my piss. They have enjoyed time with their children that is what maternity leave is all about, get on with it others are way worse off.!
She is just vile and vacuous, she is quick to forget when she’s moaning she’s had holidays, two people with her at her daughters birth and broken lockdown more than once with her made up bubbles.!

 

[Lollipop19]

Well after the other day me messaging her saying be thankful you are enjoying a child whilst on maternity leave and being blocked I’m not shocked. Imagine having maternity leave without a baby in lockdown. Life with Jessica Louise also moaning this morning about her ‘lost maternity leave’ literally boils my piss. They have enjoyed time with their children that is what maternity leave is all about, get on with it others are way worse off.!
She is just vile and vacuous, she is quick to forget when she’s moaning she’s had holidays, two people with her at her daughters birth and broken lockdown more than once with her made up bubbles.!

I'm really fed up of people moaning about 'missing out' on maternity leave because of lockdown. I mean, I can't imagine it's what they planned, but maternity leave is to bond and raise your child. What did people do before all these expensive classes existed anyway? It isn't to socialise, although I don't take anything away from the benefit of this. Many families have had the chance for second parent to be at home much more too and anyone with a healthy, happy baby is better off than some

 

[JoeBloggs]

What gets my goat about them complaining is that we’ve all lost a year, be that from being at home, working more, being alone etc. It’s not like she’s been the only one and plus considering how she has behaved it’s not like she’s missed out on much. Maybe a few baby groups but her life has pretty much continued!

 

[nicewigjanice_]

Them Tesco ads make me want to turn myself inside out. Such a fake spoilt girl.

 

[Doingitforthegram]

I'm not going to lie, I get the whole missed maternity leave thing... my 2nd was 6 months old when we went into lockdown and I was gutted (and still am) that I never got to spend the time I had off with them in the way I wanted.

My first maternity leave was so different and it does made me sad to compare the two. Maternity leave can be really lonely and isolating at the best of times without having all your social life taken away from you.

HOWEVER, there have been some amazing upsides of it, my husband has worked from home for almost a year and it's meant he has seen so much more of the kids growing up and I've really loved the fact that he has been home more and more involved....

Kate has hardly been abiding by the rules and she she a dick for that, but i don't think it's fair to tell people that their feelings aren't valid.

 

[Lollipop19]

I'm not going to lie, I get the whole missed maternity leave thing... my 2nd was 6 months old when we went into lockdown and I was gutted (and still am) that I never got to spend the time I had off with them in the way I wanted.

My first maternity leave was so different and it does made me sad to compare the two. Maternity leave can be really lonely and isolating at the best of times without having all your social life taken away from you.

HOWEVER, there have been some amazing upsides of it, my husband has worked from home for almost a year and it's meant he has seen so much more of the kids growing up and I've really loved the fact that he has been home more and more involved....

Kate has hardly been abiding by the rules and she she a dick for that, but i don't think it's fair to tell people that their feelings aren't valid.

I do appreciate that but so many people have missed out on loads of things this year and don't post crying stories about it. We paid all of our savings into a wedding that was cancelled last April with 2 weeks to go. My husband to be was made redundant. My dad closed down his own business that he's been running for 35 years as he couldn't afford to lose any more money. But we also don't have it half as bad as people who've lost livelihoods, lives and loved ones. It's fine for her to think its crap and that it hasn't been great but Kate has absolutely no perception of anything outside of her own circle, highlighted by her actions throughout