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I'd have scented candles lit and I'd watch a nice drama on TV. Then I could sleep with my legs on his side of the bed .
When I'm in the house alone I like to put my head phones in and blast music, I don't like doing that people in the house vos I feel self conscious.
Not sure if my food choices would be different, although I wouldn't have to share so I might have more snacks .
When I'm in the house alone I like to put my head phones in and blast music, I don't like doing that people in the house vos I feel self conscious.
Not sure if my food choices would be different, although I wouldn't have to share so I might have more snacks .
I'd live on ready meals and sing very loudly 
Candles lit , have a DIY beauty night , watch all the reality shows I like and take up the whole bed. Wouldn’t want rid of him to much but admitndo look forward to it. First post here after a long
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My other half always wants a proper dinner dinner so if he wasn’t there I’d have a sandwich for dinner with a cup of tea
and I’d watch real housewives and have a bath with the door open because I have to lock myself in there for peace normally and I’d starfish in bed with another cup of tea might even paint my nails as I normally do that when he’s at football as the ‘fumes’ make him feel sick apparently
and I’d watch real housewives and have a bath with the door open because I have to lock myself in there for peace normally and I’d starfish in bed with another cup of tea might even paint my nails as I normally do that when he’s at football as the ‘fumes’ make him feel sick apparently
I’d be the same you know I’m boring
My husband goes away for months at a time.
The first thing I do when he’s gone is have a big de-clutter of the house and workshops. He likes to save useless things that he will never use while I hate stuff so out it goes.
I read more when he’s away. I read a lot anyway, but when he’s home we often watch tv for an hour or two in the evenings.
I walk around naked and I eat a lot less when I’m alone. I also get more intensive workouts done as I don’t keep getting interrupted.
The downside is not having anyone to spend time with more months on end but I’m a solitary creature and I fend for myself pretty well.
The first thing I do when he’s gone is have a big de-clutter of the house and workshops. He likes to save useless things that he will never use while I hate stuff so out it goes.
I read more when he’s away. I read a lot anyway, but when he’s home we often watch tv for an hour or two in the evenings.
I walk around naked and I eat a lot less when I’m alone. I also get more intensive workouts done as I don’t keep getting interrupted.
The downside is not having anyone to spend time with more months on end but I’m a solitary creature and I fend for myself pretty well.
I'm a neat and organised freak, but when my husband is away I tend to rebel ... I might not load the dishwasher for a couple of days or do the vacuuming ... so silly (especially as he doesn't really care about that stuff)!
Edited to add - after reading and agreeing with other posts: I move to the middle of our bed, eat what I want that's not very dinner-like (such as cornflakes), and watch the TV in our bedroom until the wee small hours.
Edited to add - after reading and agreeing with other posts: I move to the middle of our bed, eat what I want that's not very dinner-like (such as cornflakes), and watch the TV in our bedroom until the wee small hours.
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I let the dog sleep on the bed.
I love being alone!! Something just lovely about your own company 
I go and get a food shop with all my favourite food and snacks - usually spicy as he’s not a fan and probably read a good book without being interrupted!
I’ll clean the house and enjoy it knowing it’s not gonna be wrecked but no candles or anything fancy over here - I can’t tolerate artificial fragrance sends my sinuses into meltdown
I go and get a food shop with all my favourite food and snacks - usually spicy as he’s not a fan and probably read a good book without being interrupted!
I’ll clean the house and enjoy it knowing it’s not gonna be wrecked but no candles or anything fancy over here - I can’t tolerate artificial fragrance sends my sinuses into meltdown
I love being alone 
. I once heard Noel Gallagher say that he was a cat and Liam was a dog. I totally get that, I'm the cat and the rest of my family are dogs - fuss me, fuss me, entertain me !
When the kids were younger I'd try and get them in bed early and set out a little buffet for myself of my fave things, s & v kettle chips, olives, cheese cut in to cubes and round it off with a white magnum
, all whilst watching what ever reality show I was in to at the time *bliss*.
If I can get rid of the kids too, I'll usually watch something scary and get on the wine
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. I once heard Noel Gallagher say that he was a cat and Liam was a dog. I totally get that, I'm the cat and the rest of my family are dogs - fuss me, fuss me, entertain me ! When the kids were younger I'd try and get them in bed early and set out a little buffet for myself of my fave things, s & v kettle chips, olives, cheese cut in to cubes and round it off with a white magnum
, all whilst watching what ever reality show I was in to at the time *bliss*.If I can get rid of the kids too, I'll usually watch something scary and get on the wine
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I don't have a partner but when my mother was away briefly I:
- used the toilet with the door open
- walked around naked
- left the TV, Alexa etc OFF and relished the silence
- read a book in peace
- ate icecream for dinner
(not all at once)
- used the toilet with the door open
- walked around naked
- left the TV, Alexa etc OFF and relished the silence
- read a book in peace
- ate icecream for dinner
(not all at once)
When my bf isn’t with me I usually change the sheets, try and put a few wash loads on, cook a homemade meal out of the freezer, spend the evening watching random factual videos on YouTube, or something like peep show/Alan partridge. Also scroll through tattle and potentially have a few brandies.
My husband is away for weeks at a time and I love my routine when he’s not here I snack less and exercise more for a start. I LOVE my evening to myself once my son is in bed, chill out with a cuppy in bed and some tv, I’m currently rewatching Desperate Housewives. Sometimes I just sit in silence and it’s bliss I really used to hate being on my own but now I love it… maybe a bit too much
I snack less and exercise more for a start. I LOVE my evening to myself once my son is in bed, chill out with a cuppy in bed and some tv, I’m currently rewatching Desperate Housewives. Sometimes I just sit in silence and it’s bliss I really used to hate being on my own but now I love it… maybe a bit too much