Good thread suggestion
I’m currently a head of HR so don’t recruit regularly anymore, just for senior positions. The one that springs to mind recently (just pre covid) was for a head of another dept role and one of the girls who came in (this would have been a 2nd stage interview with me and an Exec Committee member) was immaculate, really pretty girl (attractive not an indictator she’d do a good job obvs, but the effort someone puts into their appearance for an interview is def important as discussed a few times above

). Anyway, before we really got chatting she zoned in on me and started gushing about how much she loved my rings. Like stood up and asked to see my hand. I stupidly held my hand up and she took it and was studying my rings, moving my hand side to side. My colleague beside me was dying to burst out laughing at my clear discomfort. (I’m really not tactile unless with family/friends). She gave me my hand back and to break the awkward silence I asked her to tell us about herself or something. During the interview she again stopped and mentioned she was distracted by my rings laughing. Needless to say I wasn’t keen on appointing her into a role where I’d have to avoid her for the rest of my/her time there

joking aside, she wasn’t the best fit for the role but if she had been, I’d have had to have thought twice about appointing her tbh because I felt it was so inappropriate, especially for such a senior role. I’ll give her the benefit of the doubt it was just nerves

Another mad one was about 10 years ago when I was an HR Advisor and asked to sit on a panel recruiting housekeeping staff as someone was absent from work unexpectedly so they needed an extra person. So that’s fine, ur not expecting people to blow u away, just to be competent, friendly and hopefully trustworthy. Anyway, a lady is shown in and kind of shuffles towards us a bit oddly and sits down. I can’t remember how good the interview was but we said thanked her, stood up to shake her hand and she stood up kind of bent over. But it didn’t seem like she had mobility problems or anything, it was really odd. She shook our hands turned round and her whole bare arse was on show. I swear to god it took every bit of self control I have not to laugh. I couldn’t look at the guy I was interviewing with cause we were friendly and I knew he’d be the same. I couldn’t work out if her trousers had split but it seemed more like they had fallen down under her bum and she hadn’t/couldn’t pull them up or something. Not sure. Poor lady but also poor me as I can literally still see it in my head now



(Note: I’ve remembered reception saying she walked in normally/fine so something must have happened in between arriving and being shown into us

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Sure I’ll have other stories I’ll remember.
On a serious note, all good advice above.
My bit of advice is that it’s important to remember that the public and private sectors are very different and who will be the best candidate in each will likely be different. If you only have experience from one side and are going for a role in the other side, it’s important you understand the differences and can articulate how you feel you’ll made a quick and successful transition. I’ve worked in both, hated the public sector bureaucracy but stuck it out for experience. Much more suited to fast paced, commercial and dynamic private sector companies.