Outfluencer
Member
Just a thought - if you have to put the disclaimer “NOT CLICKBAIT” in your video title, it could be a sign that you do actually use click bait too much. 
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Idcatfua
New member
I like her tbh, more than any other parenting channel. Yes her titles are click bait but it seems to be an American thing, and most are like that anyway.
I find the honesty about her relationships with Gabe and Drake to be refreshing. I think she tries to be a good co-parent, and for her followers going through issues around that it could be really helpful. I think her children are also very well raised, and they seem really polite and well-mannered, and very appreciative, which is the opposite of a lot of influencers kids.
The sunburn thing kind of bothered me too. I think there are elements of over sharing, but I think the dynamics of American family channels are very different to british ones.
I also really enjoy her travel vlogs, esp Hawaii and Disney California ones. She’s honest in her opinions and doesn’t seem to flog rubbish all the time (*cough*BrummyMummyof2*cough*), and she’s generally less annoying than other online families.
I find the honesty about her relationships with Gabe and Drake to be refreshing. I think she tries to be a good co-parent, and for her followers going through issues around that it could be really helpful. I think her children are also very well raised, and they seem really polite and well-mannered, and very appreciative, which is the opposite of a lot of influencers kids.
The sunburn thing kind of bothered me too. I think there are elements of over sharing, but I think the dynamics of American family channels are very different to british ones.
I also really enjoy her travel vlogs, esp Hawaii and Disney California ones. She’s honest in her opinions and doesn’t seem to flog rubbish all the time (*cough*BrummyMummyof2*cough*), and she’s generally less annoying than other online families.
shadowcat5
VIP Member
She's been proven to be a liar time and time again. She said the only ones of her kids who were planned were Landen and Addie but then she got on tiktok saying she took the morning after pill with addie. Well she wasn't planned then was she?!
shadowcat5
VIP Member
Anyone seen her new Christmas intro?
i swear she’s getting more self centred by the year. It used to be introducing the family, this new one is literally all about her and the wort concept and acting I’ve ever seen
i swear she’s getting more self centred by the year. It used to be introducing the family, this new one is literally all about her and the wort concept and acting I’ve ever seen
birdiefly246
VIP Member
Her titles have been so clickbait-y recently. "a random number text my 10 year old daughter" - it was santa?! why not just say "santa texted my daughter" instead of making it out to be really creepy.
Also as a previous poster says, the mess in her house. I understand that there's a lot of them and they're all home schooling but I also feel like... can the kids not pick up after themselves? Why is there a helmet in the middle of the floor?
Finally, the moaning about the editing is driving me mental. I get that she's doing vlogmas and it's a lot of editing but your kids are learning from 8-2 everyday and you do have a husband who doesn't have a job? Can you not do at least the bulk of it then?
Also as a previous poster says, the mess in her house. I understand that there's a lot of them and they're all home schooling but I also feel like... can the kids not pick up after themselves? Why is there a helmet in the middle of the floor?
Finally, the moaning about the editing is driving me mental. I get that she's doing vlogmas and it's a lot of editing but your kids are learning from 8-2 everyday and you do have a husband who doesn't have a job? Can you not do at least the bulk of it then?
Kendopixie
Active member
Call me hysterical, but I think that shouldn't have been put online. I mean I disagree with family vlogging in general but especially anything to do with the kids relationships (romantic and otherwise). I'm glad Jess is positive about it, but if Lilia decides this is a phase she can't really go back on it. That's too much pressure for a kid I think.
not only does it not sound like her, it sounds terrible. Sorry but she is not a good singer, and the way they have edited it bad as well
She's only a child, a lot of 12 year olds now think that not fitting all the stereotypes of a sex mean that you're gender fluid or non binary. It's taking women back 70 years by forcing stereotypes and other othering. With a large online presence, she shouldn't be sharing anything until she's over 18. Brains are very much developing and changing till mid twenties and a lot of people go through a lot of changes. Putting anything personal online to a large following is a terrible idea, she can never take this back. She's terrible for exploiting her kids at any opportunity.
She put Lilia talking about being gay multiple times so maybe that's part of it.
I agree with you, we were moving forward to a place where instead of being othered and labelled a tomboy, a girl could like anything and it's just part of her interests and personality. Now kids and media and people like Jesss are pushing for the opposite. One child is a girly girl so she gets crop tops, crotch dhots, dark red lipstick open mouth pics and videos plastered online for millions of perverts... the other isn't into makeup and is non binary and can pull in another audience. It's the opposite of acceptance, it's narrow minded stereotyping. Identity development is a long process and this can have real implications. Jesss is a money hungry calculated, manipulative, dangerous POS. She's one of the most insidious cases I've seen.
Honestly! Was shocked to see she had a tattle thread with only 4 pages?! There’s about 12 years worth of chaos
Can't believe the stuff about Drake and the sunburn and yet no mention of her photoshopping to make it look worse, or Jess herself taking Addie to Disney all day without suncream and letting her burn terribly until she was sick with sunstroke in hospital as a BABY. Jesss is all double standards, manipulation and clickbait.
Princess 6
Chatty Member
I remember years ago reading and seeing the screen shots of Jess from before she was ever pregnant and then while early pregnant with the eldest posting on forums she always was desperate to become 'famous' she tried to get on MTV's 16 & pregnant and Lilias pregnancy was very much planned by her ,She is extremely manipulative
Justice4Maddie
Active member
How is there not more talk about this mess of a human!
shadowcat5
VIP Member
i think it was reference to Lilia potentially being non-binary which Jess jokes about in the vlog. No idea though. In the insta post Jess still refers to Lilia as her so I’m not sure
ChasingClouds
New member
I was obsessed with JesssFam for a number of years. I started watching less and less as the titles became more click-bait based. I also changed my direction when they were getting ready to move into the new house they built. It is always the same thing with the videos. I understand it is her life and she can do what she wants with her business and family, but I am over it personally. I am glad she is able to support her family and live a life she wants, but I don't find it as entertaining or enticing as I once did.
i also don't really understand how the prince charming has anything to do with LQBTIQ+ community, unless she is saying if girls wear pants they are somehow LGBTIQ+ confused here. Feels like something she will out in the new year when views are down after christmas and they have nothing else interesting to post about. Circa Saconyjolys