I think that’s unfair. I’m obese (not as big as Jess but still fall in the obese bracket ) and I don’t hate fat people, and I don’t get offended by the comments people make on here regarding weight / lifestyle choices, because it’s true ! I appreciate there are various reasons for people to be overweight but ultimately we are all responsible for our health and can’t keeps making excuses.
What I don’t agree with is BOPO influencers trying to tell people obesity is ok and they should love themselves as they are.
There is a fine line between being kind to yourself and accepting your body / completely ignoring all the very real health issues that come with being obese.
Its exactly the same with people who are underweight. You would never say to a anorexic person, oh it’s ok all your ribs are showing , love yourself as you are..it’s very toxic and a mental condition.If people keep telling them it’s ok they will starve themselves to death rather than get help and guidance.
Regarding food. TBF Jess eats some questionable things, which is my opinion ! ( let’s not talk about #cornbeefgate) I think it is very normal for people to say how does someone eat that or how can you eat that amount ? Christ I have those convos with family and friends about random things we eat. I really don’t think it’s hating on each other because of our weight