I really dont get the hate Jen gets. On this thread she cant do right for doing wrong. Its nit picking at the highest order. She is a great mother, she has had very tough times, never plays the poor me card, lost an incredible amount of weight and is literally trying to be the best version of herself. She is not promoting surgery - she is giving an insight into what actually happens when you lose the weight she has lost. This is nature people! It doesnt make her less of a mother because she is investing in herself. Carter adores her and its very clear that she adores him