sunnyday123
Member
Hey guys, I'm new here! I came across this forum when searching for Jasmine on google, and I can't even tell you how validated I feel to read all your comments.
I used to follow Jasmine and watch her Youtube videos back in the day when she was all about travel and languages. I really enjoyed watching her videos because I also love to learn foreign languages and travel to different places. I thought she was a very sweet girl, inspiring and mature for her age. However, I must confess I sometimes had mixed feelings because she was "too positive" for my taste. Like, sometimes I found her positivity inspiring, other times I was like "okay it's just not realistic to be this positive all the time" lol. But since she's younger than me, I thought she would grow and evolve.
Well, we all know that didn't happen. In fact, she got even worse when she began dating Josh. I still remember the first time I really felt like something was off, which was when she made a youtube video announcing she'd become a life coach. I just couldn't understand how on earth a 20 or 21 year old girl could possibly feel entitled to guide others and tell them how to reach their dreams when she literally has no experience whatsoever. I have nothing against coaches - I believe there are good ones and bad ones, like everything in life. I follow some that genuinely align with me and whose content inspires me, but we're talking about people who are at least 30 and have experienced tremendous ups and downs in all areas of life and have really developed their mindset. I mean, you can't be a life coach if you literally have no practical life experience lol. But I kept following her because of her Bali content - moving to Bali was/is in my long term plans, and I love watching everything Bali related.
What ultimately made me unfollow her was when she began to "guide women on their sexuality & intimacy journeys" and help them "find loving relationships" all that crap. Honestly, I felt embarassed for her. I mean you just lost your virginity and now you think you're a sex expert???? You're in your first relationship EVER and you're "guiding" others through their relationships?! I'm sorry but I just can't wrap my heard around it. It literally makes no sense, and I can't understand how she possibly feels entitled to do these things.
It gets even more ridiculous because as many of you pointed out, her relationship is not even healthy. Anyone who's older and has experienced different kinds of relationships, both healthy and unhealthy, can see how toxic and inauthentic Josh is. She talks about being independent but she appears to be very emotionally dependent on him.
I'm sorry for the long post but I just had to get this out of my chest. I wish she'd stop making excuses (like saying we're all just "projecting our insecurities onto her") and do some self-reflection. If you're constantly losing followers and if so many people give you the same feedback over and over again, maybe you should reflect a bit on what exactly is happening. But well, her ego is probably too big to do that.
I used to follow Jasmine and watch her Youtube videos back in the day when she was all about travel and languages. I really enjoyed watching her videos because I also love to learn foreign languages and travel to different places. I thought she was a very sweet girl, inspiring and mature for her age. However, I must confess I sometimes had mixed feelings because she was "too positive" for my taste. Like, sometimes I found her positivity inspiring, other times I was like "okay it's just not realistic to be this positive all the time" lol. But since she's younger than me, I thought she would grow and evolve.
Well, we all know that didn't happen. In fact, she got even worse when she began dating Josh. I still remember the first time I really felt like something was off, which was when she made a youtube video announcing she'd become a life coach. I just couldn't understand how on earth a 20 or 21 year old girl could possibly feel entitled to guide others and tell them how to reach their dreams when she literally has no experience whatsoever. I have nothing against coaches - I believe there are good ones and bad ones, like everything in life. I follow some that genuinely align with me and whose content inspires me, but we're talking about people who are at least 30 and have experienced tremendous ups and downs in all areas of life and have really developed their mindset. I mean, you can't be a life coach if you literally have no practical life experience lol. But I kept following her because of her Bali content - moving to Bali was/is in my long term plans, and I love watching everything Bali related.
What ultimately made me unfollow her was when she began to "guide women on their sexuality & intimacy journeys" and help them "find loving relationships" all that crap. Honestly, I felt embarassed for her. I mean you just lost your virginity and now you think you're a sex expert???? You're in your first relationship EVER and you're "guiding" others through their relationships?! I'm sorry but I just can't wrap my heard around it. It literally makes no sense, and I can't understand how she possibly feels entitled to do these things.
It gets even more ridiculous because as many of you pointed out, her relationship is not even healthy. Anyone who's older and has experienced different kinds of relationships, both healthy and unhealthy, can see how toxic and inauthentic Josh is. She talks about being independent but she appears to be very emotionally dependent on him.
I'm sorry for the long post but I just had to get this out of my chest. I wish she'd stop making excuses (like saying we're all just "projecting our insecurities onto her") and do some self-reflection. If you're constantly losing followers and if so many people give you the same feedback over and over again, maybe you should reflect a bit on what exactly is happening. But well, her ego is probably too big to do that.