Is it wrong to feel like your dating out of your league?

[PepsiCherry]

Hope someone is awake !! Lol

So I've a social distancing date for valentines day in the evening.. I feel sick to my stomach about it.

Im 5'11, size 18, good looking but chunky

Him 6'1, athletic, could be a famous actor hes that handsome.

I never care about what fellas thing normally. Ive never felt like I wasnt good enough either! We get on so well. My best friends friend is friends with him !!!! How do I just say feic it and go ?

I imagine in my head if he doesnt like me it's cause of my weight. We like all the same things and get on like a house on fire. I hate how my weight holds me back. Im a very confident woman but feic me. This is a challenge! He's so beautiful

 

[Welsh1]

Does he not know your size?
Honestly, just go for it. We always get held back by our insecurities and life is to damn bloody short! If you get on well with just conversation so far, I'm sure you'll be fine.

You also need to keep us updated please

 

[PepsiCherry]

Does he not know your size?
Honestly, just go for it. We always get held back by our insecurities and life is to damn bloody short! If you get on well with just conversation so far, I'm sure you'll be fine.

You also need to keep us updated please

Welshy, thanks for your reply ! I felt like a dope after putting this up. I read it back and was like jaysus cop on

I've sent him pics in a bralette and jeans and in clothes etc. Im v honest and I said I'm size 18

He is so nice and just in sync so much !! We like all the same things and exact same banter. From the same county so !

I will update ya Welshy. PS love Wales! Great memories. Loved Haven Haf Y Mor.. hope I spelt that right lol x

 

[judgejohndeed]

I don’t like or believe in this ‘league’ thing full stop, but you’re certainly not below this guy’s league for being a size 18!!! He knows what you look like and he likes what he sees, sounds like you’re perfectly in each other’s league to me

 

[PepsiCherry]

I don’t like or believe in this ‘league’ thing full stop, but you’re certainly not below this guy’s league for being a size 18!!! He knows what you look like and he likes what he sees, sounds like you’re perfectly in each other’s league to me

Thanks John ⚘⚘

 

[Welsh1]

Welshy, thanks for your reply ! I felt like a dope after putting this up. I read it back and was like jaysus cop on

I've sent him pics in a bralette and jeans and in clothes etc. Im v honest and I said I'm size 18

He is so nice and just in sync so much !! We like all the same things and exact same banter. From the same county so !

I will update ya Welshy. PS love Wales! Great memories. Loved Haven Haf Y Mor.. hope I spelt that right lol x

As long as you've been honest and he knows what to expect then you'll be fine honestly. It's great that you have things in common already, I'm hoping it goes well for you

Ahh thank you. Hafan Y Môr is actually based in North Wales, I'm from South Wales. Wales is amazing in general though (biased I know). X

 

[PepsiCherry]

Thanks John ⚘⚘

You single if it doesn't work out ?

 

[Sticky One]

I don’t like or believe in this ‘league’ thing full stop, but you’re certainly not below this guy’s league for being a size 18!!! He knows what you look like and he likes what he sees, sounds like you’re perfectly in each other’s league to me

100% this

hope the date goes well x

 

[PepsiCherry]

As long as you've been honest and he knows what to expect then you'll be fine honestly. It's great that you have things in common already, I'm hoping it goes well for you

Ahh thank you. Hafan Y Môr is actually based in North Wales, I'm from South Wales. Wales is amazing in general though (biased I know). X

Thank you Welshy Aw I hope so. My best friend has met him loads of the years and said hes a gent Hes taller than me and athletic. Has hair like Matty from the 1975. Green eyes. Sallow skin. Holy jaysus

I've been to the North! I think ?? Llandudno?

Haha. You need to come to Dublin! My fave place in Ireland though is the ring of Kerry and the skelligs

100% this

hope the date goes well x

Thanks sticky !!!!

 

[Keylimepie99]

If he's seen pics, then I'm sure you'll be okay!! I felt like that on numerous dates, always felt wasn't good enough. But to be honest, if he's the one for you, then he won't really care what size you are!! Plus size 18 isn't big for a girl your height!! Best of Luck!!

 

[PepsiCherry]

If he's seen pics, then I'm sure you'll be okay!! I felt like that on numerous dates, always felt wasn't good enough. But to be honest, if he's the one for you, then he won't really care what size you are!! Plus size 18 isn't big for a girl your height!! Best of Luck!!

Thanks doll. Yeah I'm lucky I'm tall but this man is legit beautiful. Ah sure look, if he doesnt like me back, I'll cry it out tomorrow at midnight, watch Bridget Jones and move on

 

[Keylimepie99]

Sure go have fun, what have you to lose!!!

 

[PepsiCherry]

Sure go have fun, what have you to lose!!!

Feic all 0.00000 We're in locdown til March ( could be longer ) and tonight he told me he's taking me to this place called Token ( arcade games.. food.. drink ! ) for our first post lockdown date ! So if we don't click at least I know he'll be sad too

 

[Scorpihoe]

He already knows your size, and doesn’t seem to have a problem with him, and if he did, then he’s a douchebag and YOU are way above HIS league!!! Have an incredible date!! And enjoy yourself!

 

[PepsiCherry]

He already knows your size, and doesn’t seem to have a problem with him, and if he did, then he’s a douchebag and YOU are way above HIS league!!! Have an incredible date!! And enjoy yourself!

Scorpi.. hoe ! Thanks for the laugh ! Haha and uplifting comment

 

[Babyyoda88]

I don’t think you’ve got anything to worry about . Go and have fun!

 

[kittypaws]

Awww bless ya I totally understand the insecurities but if he’s seen pics and knows you’re an 18 then you have nothing to worry about!!!

And if he didn’t like you cos of your size then he’s a head. Tbh though so many men these days prefer a curvier woman! I don’t know many at all who love a size 8 girl. I mean obviously there’s some but honestly I hear so many men say they love curves!

 

[Lollipop2123]

Have fun and hope it goes well

 

[Boutros-Boutros Ghali]

Can only echo what the others have said. I’ve been a size 16/18 pretty much all my life and used to let it hold me back. Don’t do the same, go, enjoy the date and be yourself. He knows what size you are and still wants to get to know you, that’s a pretty good start. And it’s his issue, not yours if he decides he doesn’t want to see you again for that reason! Have a great date and keep us updated!

 

[HoGi]

It wouldn't be your size holding you back just insecurities.

My husband once said he would rather go out with a larger women who enjoys life and eats what she wants at dinner etc. Rather than some skinny Minnie who is obsessed over every calorie and won't go to certain restaurants etc.