Ioan Gruffudd & Alice Evans #136 Do Not Mistake My Wineglass for Kindness

[SusieTCones]

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[StoneMountain]

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Ioan Gruffudd & Alice Evans #135 Bianca's birthdaying on a rock, Alice is looking for dinocock

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(31 August 2022) Cuntdown to Mediation Conference:

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(11 October 2022) Cuntdown to Custody Hearing <Ref: post #93, thread #117>:

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(25 November 2022) approximate date for a hearing (45 days after the initial custody hearing) to determine the exact timeshare of their parenting time, that's what Ioan requested <Ref: post #286, thread #120>
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(19 January 2023) Cuntdown to Status and Trial Setting Conference <Ref: posts #717, #729, & #761, thread #125>:

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Note: On 20 July 2022 the "Request for Trial Setting" was filed (expect up to 3 days) to the Court to settle Dissolution of the marriage, Child Custody, Child Visitation, Child Support, Division of Property, Attorney Fees and Costs, Validity of the Premarital Agreement. It also listed an Injunctive Order (possibly for non-disparagement of the ex-spouse to the children or in public). <Ref: post #36, thread #123>
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Note: 19 January 2023 is the conference date for the Status and Trial Setting (where the parties can either inform the judge that a agreement has been reached or generally the status of it, or determine a date for the trial, if all things are ready for it, or make other orders: can end up in a back and forth). <Ref: post #761, thread #125>
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Currently, we are anticipating the posts by @Hiraeth of relevant material of the PRO Court Hearing Transcript of 02 August 2022. <Ref: post #846, thread #130>
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Words from @Mad Betty:

 

[Hellodolly26]

Great thread title @mistyinand thank you @SusieTCones for creating a new thread.

 

[StoneMountain]

When you've had "too much of Alice",
please remember these wonderful words of @ReturningthePearls :

 

[Hellodolly26]

When you've had "too much of Alice",
please remember these wonderful words of @ReturningthePearls :

Thank you for this and to @ReturningthePearls x

 

[barre19]

Me reading a screenshot someone posts of another old instagram rant, and knowing how annoyed I’m gonna get but getting into it anyway like

(quote from end of previous thread, so screenshots have gone and I can’t remember who posted it, but thanks/gaah curse you poster responsible (EDIT: it was @AsYouLikeIt! https://tattle.life/threads/ioan-gr...e-is-looking-for-dinocock.32719/post-11356008)

(and also YESS TO THE RECEIPTS ALWAYS BEING AVAILABLE I love it)

So I'm bored with Alice's silence and have been looking through her old posts. This is from the custody filing -

This is what she posted on Insta around that time. She is saying Ioan was delaying seeing the girls, which is absolute bull! She was denying them seeing him. This post is still up on her Insta, btw. Liar liar, Alice.

I’ve missed a lot of her early meltdown insta posts, so this is the first time I’m seeing this! Where to even start…

1. The irony of her seemingly not having any capital letters around to use in the proper places, before a load of them suddenly SLAM into the sentence WITHOUT WARNING kaboom. WELL!

2. Is Bianca stunning, or is she a bogan ho? Will it help if you flip a coin Alice hun.

3. She wanted “a private life”, except that she’s been posting just about every aspect of her life publicly on instagram for the past 7 or so years. Selfies, kid photos, family photos, milestones, funny moments, throwbacks, mundane stuff that happened today, friends, parties, work, holidays… make it make sense.

4. She realised at t to at pint g… when she definitely wasn’t drunk you guys

5. they’re clearly besotted with each other abs she needs to accept that! … or, have a massive bleeping 18 month-long public tantrum about it.

6. “platlying” help is this a real word, I genuinely don’t know anymore, what day is it WHO AM I

 

[juneblackfeet]

Omg, guys! I'm not on time with everything! There is a new thread lol
Wish to read every post from last one... Anyway, one more time I would ask very shy... someone maybe having recordings of IG singing at Carnegie Hall. I have only the sneak peaks @accidentally_in_the_mix is trying to help me (I am very grateful), but maybe someone else has it too thank you so much xx

 

[MistyInParis]

Congratulations to @MistyInParis for the thread title!

Cheers SusieTC!

 

[JoJo76]

I know it will never happen, but I'd love it if after they finally manage to turf Alice out of the house that Ioan and Bianca moved in. After a thorough deep clean and sterilisation, they set about refurbishing and modernising it. Bianca would document all the very tasteful interior updates on instagram, and we would see Bubba Bear splashing about in the sparkling clean pool with the two E's.

How amazing would that be? Doubt he can afford it though, and he probably never wants to set foot in the place again anyway!

 

[What's your point]

God she is so bleeping boring lately isn't she.

 

[barre19]

God she is so bleeping boring lately isn't she.

Maybe she’s…. changed?

 

[StoneMountain]

I know it will never happen, but I'd love it if after they finally manage to turf Alice out of the house that Ioan and Bianca moved in. After a thorough deep clean and sterilisation, they set about refurbishing and modernising it. Bianca would document all the very tasteful interior updates on instagram, and we would see Bubba Bear splashing about in the sparkling clean pool with the two E's.

How amazing would that be? Doubt he can afford it though, and he probably never wants to set foot in the place again anyway!

wow - as if AE's abuse hasn't been enough.

amazing? absolutely not... sounds more like a bit sadistic to me.

ETA: I think your comments triggered me.

 

[House of Tea]

I know it will never happen, but I'd love it if after they finally manage to turf Alice out of the house that Ioan and Bianca moved in. After a thorough deep clean and sterilisation, they set about refurbishing and modernising it. Bianca would document all the very tasteful interior updates on instagram, and we would see Bubba Bear splashing about in the sparkling clean pool with the two E's.

How amazing would that be? Doubt he can afford it though, and he probably never wants to set foot in the place again anyway!

No, a clean break (no pun intended) would be best for all.

 

[SC_love]

I think there have been consequences for her breaches, that’s why she’s quiet. It will never last.

 

[CantieQuine]

I somehow think I&B will continue to live low key and canny, no matter what happens. They aren't flashy or preposterous like mAlice trying to social climb and be "Hollywood".
mAlice's grasping, grafting and exhibitionist existence is not who he ever was really.

 

[House of Tea]

I somehow think I&B will continue to live low key and canny, no matter what happens. They aren't flashy or preposterous like mAlice trying to social climb and be "Hollywood".
mAlice's grasping, grafting and exhibitionist existence is not who he ever was really.

I think you are right. They are classy, not flashy. How nice for Ioan he can breathe out.

 

[Hellodolly26]

Is @Hiraeth OK? I know she hasn't been on in a while so hoping all is OK?

 

[welp]

A thing I wondered the other day - and this is not meant to be a compliment to Alice if the below applies - is how things may have changed compared to one year ago. The kids birthdays are approaching again, is she still drinking all day and ranting all day about Ioan to the extent that not doing this is the biggest wish her daughter has? We have no way of knowing any of this, but I wonder if the PRO has here a positive or negative effect

1.) Negative effect = Alice has no outlet for her anger and lets all out on the kids
2.) Positive effect = Because she is banned from badmouthing him and thus she is getting a bit off her SM addiction that no doubt partly pushed her into this behavior long before the divorce (see Hoarse Whisperer) she may be able to get her lifestyle A BIT under control.

Again, I have doubts, and I have doubts that if it is the case that it persists long term, but 2.) is what I hope.

 

[BingoFlamingo]

I know it will never happen, but I'd love it if after they finally manage to turf Alice out of the house that Ioan and Bianca moved in. After a thorough deep clean and sterilisation, they set about refurbishing and modernising it. Bianca would document all the very tasteful interior updates on instagram, and we would see Bubba Bear splashing about in the sparkling clean pool with the two E's.

How amazing would that be? Doubt he can afford it though, and he probably never wants to set foot in the place again anyway!

I doubt he wants to set foot in there again apart from to sell it.

 

[CantieQuine]

I doubt he wants to set foot in there again apart from to sell it.

Whereas mAlice will take heavy machinery , hostage teams and swat squads to get her out of there. Even then she will have to have her fingers pried off the front gate, sedation and a hazmat cleaning team.