You should all just shag
I was wondering that!! They might not be up for an all male 3 way!!Do the swinger friends boyfriends have sex with men? Does he know them personally?
Wanting to explore his sexuality with men is absolutely no different to wanting to explore any other aspect of his sexuality that doesn’t involve you. Cheating is cheating, and the potential gay aspect doesn’t make that any more justified.I have no idea how he'd feel if it was the other way around. He makes jokes about me and other women so I think he'd want some part of it?
We were both each others first everything. Ive been thinking I made him marry me when he didn't want to? What if he went along with it to not hurt me?
I don't want to give up on us but at the same time I don't want to stop him doing what he wants just not cheating. It's confusing and frustrating all in one. If he's gay or wants to explore that then i absolutely don't want to stop that as its not fair for someone not able to be themselves but I don't want to accept cheating and don't think I should have to but at the same time I don't feel strong enough to let go.
Thank you for all you replies. I think in th next few days I will have to have a conversation with him and see where we're at and what he wants going forward but I dread to think this is the end of our marriage.
I don't understand why you would say something like this? I've been clear that it's not my thing and I'm struggling with this. Did you just come here to be insensitive??You should all just shag