How do you spend time with your OH?

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Most evenings are taken up by dinner/TV, my partner doesn’t have a set time he gets home so all depends how much time we have - usually not very much.
Weekends we often go out for a meal (as a family though) and then do stuff with the kids.
If we have an evening/day just us two, we’ll usually go to the cinema or for dinner.
 
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During the week we usually just watch TV together in the evenings. Weekends are often spent together going for a long walk, cinema, out for lunch, spending time in the garden (when it’s warmer), National Trust places etc. We’re early 30s and don’t have kids.
 
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Too much 🙄
Only joking currently on mat leave. So tea tonight every night. Weekends are spent doing family things with the kids.
We seriously need abit more "us time". He always manages to get that in 😂 Just date days/nights, just the two of us.
This time will change massively when I get back to work. He works 8-6 and I work shifts inc weekends.
 
Late 20s here, no kids yet.
Cinema, meals out, tv. We are together 24/7 so don't really set aside special times regularly as we work together, commute together and live together. It was never really the plan to be working together but just the way things happened.. and some may say that's unhealthy, but we've no issues with it. Together 10 years, colleagues for 6.
We do some things separate, I'll see my family regularly with and without him, and he goes to a club once a week.
 
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During the week we usually just watch TV together in the evenings. Weekends are often spent together going for a long walk, cinema, out for lunch, spending time in the garden (when it’s warmer), National Trust places etc. We’re early 30s and don’t have kids.
Does your partner like walking? My oh isn't crazy about them so we're getting a bike for me.

I love the idea of the national trust places.

Too much 🙄
Only joking currently on mat leave. So tea tonight every night. Weekends are spent doing family things with the kids.
We seriously need abit more "us time". He always manages to get that in 😂 Just date days/nights, just the two of us.
This time will change massively when I get back to work. He works 8-6 and I work shifts inc weekends.
What would you do for an "us time" (Well except perhaps the obvious). I just don't know whether we are a normal or a boring couple 😂

Late 20s here, no kids yet.
Cinema, meals out, tv. We are together 24/7 so don't really set aside special times regularly as we work together, commute together and live together. It was never really the plan to be working together but just the way things happened.. and some may say that's unhealthy, but we've no issues with it. Together 10 years, colleagues for 6.
We do some things separate, I'll see my family regularly with and without him, and he goes to a club once a week.
Do you socialise together? With his /your/mutual friends?
 
Does your partner like walking? My oh isn't crazy about them so we're getting a bike for me.

I love the idea of the national trust places.



What would you do for an "us time" (Well except perhaps the obvious). I just don't know whether we are a normal or a boring couple 😂


Do you socialise together? With his /your/mutual friends?
Its normally go out for meals and drinks. Or spa days or city breaks if weve got more time. (Pretty boring but we normally just want to chill when weve got no kids with us)

As a family we do alot of walking, go ape, rockclimbing, sea side trips, bowling, mini golf. We have friends with a child the same age so do alot with them too.
 
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Does your partner like walking? My oh isn't crazy about them so we're getting a bike for me.

I love the idea of the national trust places.


My partner does like walking and going to the National trust places as long as it’s not raining. We usually go for a long walk around the grounds and then go to the cafe for cake and hot chocolate
 
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At the weekend/ time off we watch films, go shopping, go out for lunch/ dinner have a day out with the kids somewhere, go for a walk with kids on their scooters. During the week we only have a couple of hours in the evening so we watch tv with our eldest present then she goes to bed and we go to bed an hour after her.
We are late 30s with 3 kids
 
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Watch TV/films, walk the dog, clean the house, go for food/drinks, go shopping, to the cinema etc etc 😁

I am happy watching a series on Netflix with snacks and cuddles with the doge (what we are doing right now)

mid-late 20s and no children
 
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We are mid 20s no children. At the moment in the evenings we usually just cook and watch tv and read as it's too dark after work to do much. In the summer would usually go for walks in the evenings. We plan to start swimming a few nights a week soon.

Weekends we go walking, to National Trust places, visit family, do our own thing with friends, cinema, out for food :)

Considering maybe going to dance classes as a couple soon, inspired by strictly haha I would love to do tap!
 
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We are in our 40s with four children... my husband works a lot so most of the time we spend time has a family. When my husband goes into to work late we spend time together when the kids go to school 🤪😉..... we go out with friends every couple of months... we also go out together as a couple every couple of months ... we don’t go out much or socialise much.... we would rather catch up on sleep !!!!
 
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In our 30s. Have 1 daughter but she's with her friends more than at home. We have a dog, go drives to New places for walks, cinema occasionally, dinner or lunch out, playing games either on the phone or computer. Watch TV too 😂
 
I don’t 😢 at the moment anyway. He works days and I work nights. If we get a night off together it’s usually a film before one or both of us ends up snoring in the couch 10 minutes in 😆. We do stuff as a family with the kids at the weekend so not really couple time but we do get to see each other.
 
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Late 20s here, no children. It's great to see some other young National Trust goers! Weekdays, if we're both home in the evening, by the time we have eaten tea and washed up etc, it's usually just an hour or 2 of TV.
At weekend we do the food shop together (exciting 😂), any other shopping we need to do like things for the house. We like going for walks and in the spring/summer we love gardening.
 
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Late 30s early 40s here with 2 kids. During the week we usually just eat dinner and then watch TV together.
My MIL takes the kids to church on Sundays so we usually go out for brunch/lunch and then for a long walk with the dog.

We have great neighbors and in summer time we hang out with them. But mostly as a family since they have kids too.
 
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