Henry Southan & Jordan Sangha (Jenry) #5 The Break up

[daisybrown]

Yes, then she clarified that Henry contributed towards bills etc

Even in that first comment about it being Jordan’s flat she said Henry “paid his way” including social life and holidays.

 

[Gym&Tonic]

Yes, then she clarified that Henry contributed towards bills etc

Even in that first comment about it being Jordan’s flat she said Henry “paid his way” including social life and holidays.

She’s going to say that though isn’t she? For some reason she thinks her brother is some innocent who needs protecting at all costs, and I don’t know why she thought it was her place to reveal private information? I personally don’t think a lawyer would post stuff like that if it wasn’t true and he knew couldn’t back it up.

 

[daisybrown]

I only clarified what she actually wrote based on what you said she commented/confirmed. I don’t actually know the truth obviously and I don’t think she should be saying anything.

 

[Merpedy]

I personally don’t think a lawyer would post stuff like that if it wasn’t true and he knew couldn’t back it up.

I've seen this sentiment a few times, but people seem to forget that (a) his specialism is commercial/debt law (by the sounds of it) so his other knowledge is going to be surface level at best and (b) no one is going to be dragging each other through civil courts for this when it's extremely expensive and they're both basically irrelevant in the grand scheme of things

Outside of this little bubble of a fandom I don't think many people know or care what's actually going on and I reckon it would be beneficial for them both to remember that occasionally

 

[Probablylurking66]

Screenshots?

I can’t even find her on X

She changed her username to deletemyxhelp, she says she can't remember the password in order to delete her twitter. And despite her private school education she also apparently can't figure out how to simply reset her password.

 

[Greentea12]

The airing of dirty laundry needs to stop now, l think.
I believe that Jordan paid a hefty deposit for their flat and that he was the one that did the bulk of the housework since then.
I do find it harder to believe that Henry didn't put his hand in his pocket for the entirely of the relationship.
The BB prize money and the subsequent payments Jordan received for interviews etc couldn't have sustained their lifestyle for the last 18 months.
There are alot of hurt feelings on both sides from two young guys experiencing their first heartbreak and alot of chatter from people that have no media training making the situation worse.
I hope they can both move on and I wish them all the best.

 

[Skellig]

She changed her username to deletemyxhelp, she says she can't remember the password in order to delete her twitter. And despite her private school education she also apparently can't figure out how to simply reset her password.

I went to a private school for my senior years in school.... Didn't realise it made me better than those who didn't and meant Id more awareness of morals lol

What an entitled and out of touch witch. Saying that and she's in her 40s

 

[ChilliEm]

I went to a private school for my senior years in school.... Didn't realise it made me better than those who didn't and meant Id more awareness of morals lol

What an entitled and out of touch witch. Saying that and she's in her 40s

Sorry? Her 40s??? She can’t be - I knew she was older than Henry, but I thought 30 tops. Not going on looks but she comes across very young

 

[girlinbrum]

She probably can't get into her X account because her facial recognition isn't working...she's changed her face and body through so many procedures she's unrecognisable.

 

[Big Fat Sue]

Jordan's just been on live ranting about Henry, saying he spent 50k on rent and bills for the first flat and Henry only sent him 2k for the whole year, said Henry took advantage of him and he's living the high life while Jordan is "destitute." Someone commented that he needs a holiday and he said he can't afford it. He also said Henry has told him he's not allowed to bring any guys to the flat, and he accused Jordan of being unwell and unstable.
I think something has went down tonight to cause this outburst but I didn't catch the whole live. Jordan seemed quite angry but said he won't regret anything he's said in the morning because he's just speaking his truth.

 

[Skyr]

I just watched some of Jordan's angry live. He is obviously hurting, but it's just getting pathetic at this point... I think he must be lonely in order to need to vent to strangers like this.

I also think that even though Jordan paid for the flat, that doesn't mean Henry didn't pay for things like groceries, holidays, furniture. They also ate out A LOT and in fancy restaurants which was most likely mainly free due to Henry's job. So I don't think it's really fair for Jordan or anyone else to act like Henry never paid for anything at all.

I think Jordan got caught up in the excitement of having the prize money. We all saw him kinda throw it around on expensive jumpers and all the lego lol. He didn't invest and he didn't save and he didn't put the money into anything long term (like towards buying a home instead of just renting) and he didn't use his 15 minutes of fame to land a job. That was his choice.
How many hours of actual work do you think Jordan has done over the last two years? Not a lot is my guess. It's not weird that money then ran out!

He got a 100k for Christ sake!! Most people never get an opportunity like that! He blew through it and now has nothing to show and is angry but that was ultimately his own choice, no matter what Henry did or didn't pay for.

 

[Probablylurking66]

I just watched some of Jordan's angry live. He is obviously hurting, but it's just getting pathetic at this point... I think he must be lonely in order to need to vent to strangers like this.

I also think that even though Jordan paid for the flat, that doesn't mean Henry didn't pay for things like groceries, holidays, furniture. They also ate out A LOT and in fancy restaurants which was most likely mainly free due to Henry's job. So I don't think it's really fair for Jordan or anyone else to act like Henry never paid for anything at all.

I think Jordan got caught up in the excitement of having the prize money. We all saw him kinda throw it around on expensive jumpers and all the lego lol. He didn't invest and he didn't save and he didn't put the money into anything long term (like towards buying a home instead of just renting) and he didn't use his 15 minutes of fame to land a job. That was his choice.
How many hours of actual work do you think Jordan has done over the last two years? Not a lot is my guess. It's not weird that money then ran out!

He got a 100k for Christ sake!! Most people never get an opportunity like that! He blew through it and now has nothing to show and is angry but that was ultimately his own choice, no matter what Henry did or didn't pay for.

It doesn't matter how Jordan chose to spend the 100k or how much Henry might have contributed to other stuff, paying your share of the rent is the bare bleeping minimum.

 

[Skyr]

It doesn't matter how Jordan chose to spend the 100k or how much Henry might have contributed to other stuff, paying your share of the rent is the bare bleeping minimum.

Unless you are making up for it in paying for groceries, experiences etc. Jordan is only saying Henry didn't pay bills, but there are plenty other expenses.

And yes, maybe Henry didn't pay as much as Jordan and maybe he should have. But then why didn't they have a conversation about this at the start? Jordan paid up front for the flat and then let Henry live there. If he wanted rent paid he probably should have asked for rent and had a tenant agreement.

I just think Jordan's anger about money in particular is a bit misdirected in a way. He chose to spend that money and now, after the relationship went sour, is mad about it.

 

[Merpedy]

So from Digital Spy it sounds like Henry’s mum and then sister had been arguing in comments of some random video and trying to imply things about Jordan - they seem to have a weird culture with screenshots over there and generally protect Jordan so not many specifics but one of the things mentioned was that Henry’s mum (?) had said that Jordan paid rent and Henry covered other expenses and then it was edited to say that Henry paid the rent

Guessing that’s what caused the explosion

I understand why Jordan is upset because he’s definetely lost more from this breakup I think. Obviously the money he has apparently laid down for rent, social media engagement and brand engagement seemingly. Henry has continued as normal and seems to be getting some articles posted about him on the other hand. At the same time, I don’t think this is a good look for Jordan primarily, Henry just seems to have his family fighting his battles for some reason

 

[Gym&Tonic]

Jordan needs to move back up North. He was happier there, his mum is there, his real friends are there and more importantly it’s cheaper! Plus people in the North are friendlier! (Sorry southerners). He can still go back down to London if he needs to, but basing himself up North would make a lot more sense. I do get why he’s upset. That a hundred K would have easily bought him his own little property in a cheaper party of the country but it’s a life lesson for him going forward.

As for Henry, well, I think his behaviour since the split has been pretty disgraceful actually and has shown blatant disregard for Jordan and his feelings. Don’t get me started on his awful family, specifically his sister.

 

[Big Fat Sue]

I don't think Jordan would accuse Henry of taking advantage of him financially if that's not what happened. I get the impression there is a lot more he could say and he's actually holding back a bit.

Yes it may have been his choice to pay the rent upfront, but he was probably a bit blinded by being in love, Henry never seemed to be as into Jordan as Jordan was to him, and shouldn't have accepted his offer to pay the rent. Even if he did buy some groceries, you can hardly compare that to 50k rent!

He said again last night that he's moving back in with his mum and he can't be arsed with guys anymore. I hope he moves back soon, it'll be good for him to build his own life again away from that flat.

 

[repairshoplover]

I’ve really been enjoying Jordan’s videos on visiting local history. I feel he could be on to something there. Definitely moving back up North to be nearer his mum. It feels like Jordan has no one round him to help support him. Even Hallie has been no where to see where as Kerry has seen them both x

 

[Gym&Tonic]

I’ve really been enjoying Jordan’s videos on visiting local history. I feel he could be on to something there. Definitely moving back up North to be nearer his mum. It feels like Jordan has no one round him to help support him. Even Hallie has been no where to see where as Kerry has seen them both x

He’s seen Noky. I think a lot of them quietly support him. Olivia likes everything he posts and their families are friends. Hallie I know has suffered appalling transphobia and has poor mental health but jordan has said many times how much of a good friend he considers her.

 

[Shutterbug99]

This is all very nasty now and it's a shame to see it. That they are still living together really can't be helping at all. They need some distance from each other and both need to move on from this now. When they first split I had thought they might salvage a friendship in time, but that's not looking likely now.

 

[girlinbrum]

If I was Hallie, at her age, I'd want to stay away from a toxic breakup being playing out in public - but still have texts and calls with the mates in private.