VIDEO SUMMARY: 10 ways to boost your Confidence PERMANENTLY
Sitting and wiggling around her chair in her some red pants, a crop top and curly hair which makes her look 10 years older.... why? because PERMANENT CONFIDENCE!
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We're going to learn about how she's soooooo confident, she's well flattered that people keep asking her how she's soooooo confident.
She's trained herself to get over certain things.
She condones getting a tan, putting on make up, doing X, Y and Z to boost your confidence. But today she wants to talk about long term tings
1. STOP RESTRICTING YOURSELF BY "SOCIETY'S" STANDARDS
Says the influencer who face tunes her face, tells people what they should buy just because she has an affiliate link etc.
"Stop telling yourself you can't do things because of your age, because you might be a parent, because of your profession, of where you live, you're life style - these are all barriers that you are putting up for yourself"
She hears it all the time "I can't do that cos of X, Y and Z"
And like her opinion of lock down.... it's all bullshit. It don't matter how old you are etc
duck it and do what you want, wear what you want, wear your hair and make up whatever way you want...... and she says her famous catchphrase
"JUST DO IT!"
"Tailor to what you consume online to how it makes you feel"
"eg. if there's accounts on IG that make you feel
crappy about yourself.... mute or unfollow"
She was late to the party and says she's only just started following accounts that she feels inspired by and people who she thinks "yeaaaaah we'll get along, we're cut from the same cloth"
She's unfollowed people that she doesn't vibe with - I wonder how many influencers she's ditched lolol
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2. WALK AROUND NAKED MORE OFTEN!!!!!!!
She yells to the camera. She purposely did this video in her "favorite lounge undies" as they're sooooo comfortable. She starts shuffling around in her chair again like she has ants in her pants...
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She feels great in them and tells us to "wear less clothing around more people!"
And now she's reminiscing about the first time her and her friends all got naked together - they all got a spray tan together (together?!) and forgot they all had to get naked. And it was an eye opening experience for her because she's not seen people naked before and was shocked to find "oh my god! we allll look the same!"
Tells us to be around people in our pants. Because PERMANENT CONFIDENCE!
But just don't go out in public, cos that's too far - you got to "do it legally!"
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She loves dancing in the mirror in just her pants "lettin' it all jiggle n wiggle" (more butt wiggling in her chair, all this wiggling just makes her look like she's desperate for a pee)
Sometimes she'll even have "a butt wiggle sesh!"
Number 4.... wait what happened to 3???
4. LOOK AFTER YOURSELF
"That doesn't mean to sound patronizing"
"Have fun with your food and eat what you want but make sure that it's somewhat balanced"
"I LOVE FOOD, I LOVE DRINKING" The first step is admitting it Quirkz, "I I I I it, it, It gives me joy, I talk about it allll the time!"
"I'm such a food PORN" - wait what? "I LOVE IT!"
But she also likes to make sure she's eating healthy and nutritious stuff.
She loves to move a lot and do exercise - its not essential but it makes her feel good
Tells us to pamper yourself and have a Saturday morning bath, paint yer nails, spend a bit more time on yer skin care
5. DRESS UP FOR THE MUDANE
(Why we telling people they have to dress up now after going on about people having the freedom to wear what they want, when they want?)
"Wear someting a little bit extra to the supa marrrrket"
"Wear your FUR COAT to do yer errands in" - FUR coat? Are you kidding me?
Says we gotta make the "EXTRA" normal because it will then make it easier to dress extra "as it were"
"You make THAT your normal. DON'T EVEN QUESTION IT"
Again.... why is she telling us what to wear when she literally said dress however the
duck you want, why is she pushing us all to be extra all of a sudden??
"If you can go to Tesco in a sparkly sequin leotard" she laughs manically, just like everyone else in Tesco's would, "and PLATFORM shoes, and a FUR coat, and over sized sunglasses, just to get a pint o milk - ABSOLUTELY DO IT!!!"
"If you turn some heads? WINNER!"
6. THINK ABOUT WHAT MAKES YOU INSECURE AND WHY - AND THEN CHALLENGE IT
Says she's insecure about things but she's only that way because she's been MADE to feel that way from a LIFETIME of being shown the "perfect body" or the "perfect face" (says the person who still
bleeping loooooooooves to facetune her pie hole)
"That's somewhat an element of brainwashing" Says the INFLUENCER.
"And that's not our problem" Goes on about her spots and says people don't notice them unless you point them out
(which isn't actually true....)
If people point out anything that you're insecure about then you need to think to yourself "are these the kind of people you want to spend your time with"
7. (And she means this in the nicest way) NO ONE CARES
"no one cares what you're wearing, no one cares what you look like" ......again, says the make up and fashion INFLUENCER.
"no one cares that you gained 6 pounds"
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(except when you try to be a body confidence influencer but constantly lie to your audience that you've magically been a size 14 for 7 years)
Says she's had her fair share of heads being turned when she walks down the street at some of the garish
tit she's worn and thinks that these people are thinking "oh cool" "oh interesting!"
8. MAKE AN UPLIFTING PLAY LIST AND DANCE TO IT
Says if she feels crappy then she puts on her happy playlist, usually in her underwear "It's not all about loving what you're in, its just about loving life in general"
"there's wayyyy more to life that...." Jiggles in her chair again, why? "wayyy more to life! Just enjoy it!" (ah more just do it!)
9. THINK ABOUT THE REPERCUSSION OF WEARING OR DOING SOMETHING THAT YOU LOVE
"SPOILER ALERT!" She yells, "THERE ARE NONE!" (so you go out in that sequin leotard in the middle of winter you Quirky fucks!)
She's repeating the start of the video about getting asked sooo many times about how she has the confidence to wear what she wears etc.. is this video literally about having the PERMANENT confidence to wear
bleeping clothes?
The answer is: She has confidence because she knows it's something that she wants to do.
She does what she does because she knows that nothing is going to come of it, and that nothing BAD ever happens, there's no repercussions for her wearing her favorite dress, her WACKY coat, her Elton John style sunglasses, "literally nothing happens" except for her feeling happy in her little Helen bubble, not giving a
duck.
10. STOP COMPARING YOURSELF
Wait didn't we cover this earlier? Are we just going around in circles again?
"I did touch upon this on a previous point" ah she's run out of tips and is going back lol
Tells us again to stop comparing ourselves to people online
"we have been FILTRATED with images growing up. Movie stars, of actresses, of models, of people in magazines" (.....not gonna add social media influencers?)
Goes on about how it's not normal, same
tit as earlier and tells us we need to surround ourselves with ALL TYPES of people....
Says she still compares herself to others..... not really a permanent solution then, is it Helz?
Tells us we need to be grateful for what we do have.
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