Grace Victory #11 Her cup is full, of complaints

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Seeing how this woman “parents” actually makes me so angry! Those poor children know that their mother doesn’t love them. She continues to use this past trauma narrative, but surely you’d wanna break that and be the best parent ever to your kids?

it takes two to tango, and you can say what you want about Lee, but you can see he is a loving dad, who actually loves and wants his children. I feel for him, supporting his family by working two jobs, whilst princess sits on her arse and finds anything, and everything to complain about.

she’s an insult to people who have been on deaths door, or beaten the odds. There’s many people who are no longer here, who would have appreciated graces postion so much more than her. Use your experience to make a change, and do positive and amazing things!

her sister on the other hand, seems to have taken to motherhood beautifully. The little snippets she posts show how much she loves and adores her baby, and considering Charleigh has MS, it’s amazing that she’s been able to have a baby. And you can see the gratitude she has for it. Her relationship with her partner sounds very equal too. The complete opposite of grace.

I just with someone would scream into graces face, be bleeping grateful for what you have! I can see why she has no friends left, she comes across as all attention on me, and a drain on people’s energies.

I feel sorry for Lee, and the children. She’s too self absorbed and selfish to be a mum. She wanted children for all the wrong reasons, and it’s a bleeping insult to women and men, who want nothing more than a family, will make amazing parents and have to go through the heartbreak. Whilst you have this witch who practically flings her kids into bed at 6PM so she can have “me time”. duck off, again an insult to working parents who feel tremendous guilt for not being around all the time and feel that they don’t get that quality time together. Kids are only kids for a short amount of time, she won’t get this time back.

the kids will dislike her for this when they grow up, this is online and it won’t ever go away. Imagine if they find this site, and see all the screenshots of the constant complaining and whining about them. That’s gonna hurt for them, but at least they have Lee who adores them.
 
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has she lost weight ?
I came to this thread to see if anyone else has noticed too, as I've not kept up with Grace for a good while.

It certainly looks that way. I'm willing to bet it's Mounjaro or similar.
She has and we've noticed but she hasn't spoken about it or said anything about exercise/a diet change. She still seems to spend most of her time on the sofa so we also suspect weight loss jabs.
 
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Seeing how this woman “parents” actually makes me so angry! Those poor children know that their mother doesn’t love them. She continues to use this past trauma narrative, but surely you’d wanna break that and be the best parent ever to your kids?

it takes two to tango, and you can say what you want about Lee, but you can see he is a loving dad, who actually loves and wants his children. I feel for him, supporting his family by working two jobs, whilst princess sits on her arse and finds anything, and everything to complain about.

she’s an insult to people who have been on deaths door, or beaten the odds. There’s many people who are no longer here, who would have appreciated graces postion so much more than her. Use your experience to make a change, and do positive and amazing things!

her sister on the other hand, seems to have taken to motherhood beautifully. The little snippets she posts show how much she loves and adores her baby, and considering Charleigh has MS, it’s amazing that she’s been able to have a baby. And you can see the gratitude she has for it. Her relationship with her partner sounds very equal too. The complete opposite of grace.

I just with someone would scream into graces face, be bleeping grateful for what you have! I can see why she has no friends left, she comes across as all attention on me, and a drain on people’s energies.

I feel sorry for Lee, and the children. She’s too self absorbed and selfish to be a mum. She wanted children for all the wrong reasons, and it’s a bleeping insult to women and men, who want nothing more than a family, will make amazing parents and have to go through the heartbreak. Whilst you have this witch who practically flings her kids into bed at 6PM so she can have “me time”. duck off, again an insult to working parents who feel tremendous guilt for not being around all the time and feel that they don’t get that quality time together. Kids are only kids for a short amount of time, she won’t get this time back.

the kids will dislike her for this when they grow up, this is online and it won’t ever go away. Imagine if they find this site, and see all the screenshots of the constant complaining and whining about them. That’s gonna hurt for them, but at least they have Lee who adores them.
I personally like relatable content. Motherhood isn’t always beautiful. It’s very difficult especially when you have high need children.

But

she doesn’t balance discussing her struggles with positivity. That’s what makes a relatable page nice to follow. It’s not just constant moaning. It’s saying, ‘hey I’m with you on this journey and sometimes it sucks… but… I wouldn’t change it for the world and here’s some positive moments.

she’s too quick to use her stories as a diary and it comes across like she’s miserable but maybe she is…

I think people would warm to her more if her Instagram was more well rounded and not just trauma this/bad day this/period/coma this…
 
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Fair enough she prefers forest school to nursery but what is she going to do if a traditional school environment isn’t to her liking (I’m almost positive she is going to say they are all unacceptable). She’s is too lazy to homeschool them herself.

She didn’t like a nursery setting because Cyprus was picking up bugs… that’s probably because he doesn’t go ANYWHERE or mix with any other kids because you do duck all apart from plonk him in front of the TV so you can “rest” on the Sofa Grace. He’s probs built up hardly any immunity.

I think the transition to a structured school day is going to be a rocket up her huge backside tbh. We think her moaning is bad now? Somehow I reckon it’s going to get a whole lot worse 😂
 
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Banging on about the outdoors and outdoor play, but won’t fling open the patio doors and let the kids in to the garden?! MAKE IT MAKE SENSE GRACE.
 
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I must admit the forest school looks so much fun. I imagine Cyrpus loves because it's the only time he gets to be outside and move instead of confined to his bed for 12 hours a day .
 
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She’s just said if Cyprus doesn’t like school he just won’t go. Lol sorry most kids don’t like school? What is she going to do instead because we all know she doesn’t have it in her to home educate. That poor boy
 
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Have just come back given her most recent post saying she doesn’t supplement their learning. What the hell is wrong with her
 
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That Q&A is truly horrific. Maybe if you paid a bit more attention to education you would know the difference between assess and access Grace.

She would be my absolute worst nightmare as a teacher. I feel sorry for whoever gets Cyprus in their class having to deal with Grace’s demands. Is she just not going to do their homework? Does she really do NOTHING at home to help with their speech, reading and writing etc? WILD.
 

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her sister on the other hand, seems to have taken to motherhood beautifully. The little snippets she posts show how much she loves and adores her baby, and considering Charleigh has MS, it’s amazing that she’s been able to have a baby. And you can see the gratitude she has for it. Her relationship with her partner sounds very equal too. The complete opposite of grace.
I dunno I think she’s problematic in some ways too tbh. I actually have lot in common with her (I have MS and had a baby with cmpa), I know the frustration of getting your baby’s issues taken seriously. But it isn’t a flex to say you screamed at the doctors surgery…Overworked, underfunded NHS staff don’t deserve abuse.
 
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That Q&A is truly horrific. Maybe if you paid a bit more attention to education you would know the difference between assess and access Grace.

She would be my absolute worst nightmare as a teacher. I feel sorry for whoever gets Cyprus in their class having to deal with Grace’s demands. Is she just not going to do their homework? Does she really do NOTHING at home to help with their speech, reading and writing etc? WILD.
As a teacher, I agree with her on Ofsted and a lot of homework is pointless. BUT reading with your child, doing baking, craft, painting etc isn’t homework it’s just parenting!
 
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“Do parents supplement their kids learning?”

lol what? 🤣 did she just say that with her full chest. Absolute insanity.
 
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That Q&A is truly horrific. Maybe if you paid a bit more attention to education you would know the difference between assess and access Grace.

She would be my absolute worst nightmare as a teacher. I feel sorry for whoever gets Cyprus in their class having to deal with Grace’s demands. Is she just not going to do their homework? Does she really do NOTHING at home to help with their speech, reading and writing etc? WILD.
Those kids are fucked when they reach SATS/Y7
 
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In one breath she hints at possibly homeschooling her children if they don't like school, the next she is dying because of half term which is literally one week?? My son is in reception and I absolutely love half term. I love having him back for a week, going out during the week on walks, exploring, chilling at home, cinema etc. I also work full time nights in the NHS and I literally don't get this 'on out knees after half term' mentality all these influencers seem to have. Do you really hate spending quality time with your child so much?? But you think you might homeschool? Make it make sense please
 
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