Hi
Iāve written on a few threads about my ex - I got dumped unexpectedly during the 1st lockdown in April. We met up in September as friends and we havenāt been in touch since. When we met up,we didnāt discuss the break-up nor did I seek closure then as it was the first time seeing him post-breakup and I was very nervous.
However the months have passed and my mental health has taken a turn for the worse thinking about how the relationship ended. I really need closure so I can move on from what happened but I donāt know how to ask him for it. He was always a very closed book with his feelings and never liked talking about them. Iām tempted to just ask him outright for closure but this would be via text due to Covid restrictions. I would prefer to do this face to face but due to being in lockdown I obviously feel uncomfortable doing this but the weeks are passing and my mental health is suffering
What are peopleās advice on seeking closure from an ex?
Thanks in advance
Iāve written on a few threads about my ex - I got dumped unexpectedly during the 1st lockdown in April. We met up in September as friends and we havenāt been in touch since. When we met up,we didnāt discuss the break-up nor did I seek closure then as it was the first time seeing him post-breakup and I was very nervous.
However the months have passed and my mental health has taken a turn for the worse thinking about how the relationship ended. I really need closure so I can move on from what happened but I donāt know how to ask him for it. He was always a very closed book with his feelings and never liked talking about them. Iām tempted to just ask him outright for closure but this would be via text due to Covid restrictions. I would prefer to do this face to face but due to being in lockdown I obviously feel uncomfortable doing this but the weeks are passing and my mental health is suffering
What are peopleās advice on seeking closure from an ex?
Thanks in advance