are you tapped? No body plans to have a kid in uni, it happens. What changes is whether you decide to keep that child or not and she clearly thought the right thing for her to do would be to keep it. I am not disputing the fact that she is self absorbed or selfish but everyone has different views. What does it matter if it’s a council house? At least she’s earning money un like all the other dossers on the dole. Unfortunately some people aren’t financially stable to be able to buy their own home, it’s not comparable.
I don’t agree with dissing the way that people live as that’s personal to each individual like yourself.
I don’t agree with the sperm donor as it’s a selfish way to have a child. It’s selfish that she won’t let her own sons dad see his child “because of COVID” but she’s going shopping in Leeds, going out with her family and going to see other people’s nursery’s. not to mention he is now going to pre school. She clearly doesn’t like sharing. Ru’s dad tries his hardest to see his child. That story the other night about being single when he was conceived is bullshit, she was in a relationship and the dad wanted to be there for her and his child. She makes it sound like he doesn’t/isn’t involved but there is so much behind the scenes that she chooses not to share because she wants the pitty party.
I don’t have an issue with people in council houses, what I have an issue with is people who could easily be out working, and I mean working 9-5 like the rest of us to pay our bills, instead of letting the government pay the rent whilst she plunders thousands into producing another child. If she’s able to put back 4K to then spend on something that will cost the government more money, then she’s not exactly on the bread line is she?
council houses or however she wants to dress it up are there for people who need that financial support. How can someone be in this position but also spending 4K injecting themselves with sperm?
It is selfish and irresponsible. I know of couples who are holding off having a baby until they are in a better financial position. Then you get Gemma.
‘Unfortunately some people aren’t financially stable to be able to buy their own home, it’s not comparable.’
there are LOTS of young people who are desperately trying to get onto the property ladder and they are doing it by working and saving - going without spending £100 in Homesense every week for example! Many of these people would like to be doing an at home, freelance job but that’s not what pays the bills and instead they’re out doing shifts and long hours. Gemma isn’t ‘financially stable’ Because she chooses not to be. She’s too much of a princess to go out and actually save for her own place. She would rather everyone else pay for it. So yeh, I’ll judge her for that.
