Totally, everything and life decisions are made to fit to them from the moment you gave birth, not “you” anymore.She’s never around babies or kids so I don’t know how she can know what it’s like to raise one today, her mum isn’t exactly a source of info as it was over quarter a century since she gave birth.
Before I had my kids I thought it would be easier than it was. Nothing prepares you for how much ‘you’ time you lose and that’s even before we talk about physical and mental health changes where you really want that lost ‘you’ time to sort yourself out.