Friends and friendships are such an interesting one aren’t they?!
I have to say that I think social media plays into how we view things way too much. For example I am part of a girl group, there are 9 of us and we have been ‘friends’ since we were 13. From the outside we look like the perfect group, loads of holidays together, bridesmaids, meals out, zoom calls etc etc. In reality it’s horrendous. The group has their own sub groups (I thankfully am good friends with 2 of them) but there are constantly fall outs, drama, people bitching behind others backs it’s such a toxic and frankly exhausting group to be a part of! I do have other friends outside of the group but I just find it really funny how people always say to me wow you have such a solid group of girls and I’m like IF ONLY YOU KNEW THE HELL IT REALLY IS!
I have to say that I think social media plays into how we view things way too much. For example I am part of a girl group, there are 9 of us and we have been ‘friends’ since we were 13. From the outside we look like the perfect group, loads of holidays together, bridesmaids, meals out, zoom calls etc etc. In reality it’s horrendous. The group has their own sub groups (I thankfully am good friends with 2 of them) but there are constantly fall outs, drama, people bitching behind others backs it’s such a toxic and frankly exhausting group to be a part of! I do have other friends outside of the group but I just find it really funny how people always say to me wow you have such a solid group of girls and I’m like IF ONLY YOU KNEW THE HELL IT REALLY IS!