Family Fizz #4 How about surprising your kids with stability?

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Hi, sorry I am new to this thread, could someone point me in the direction where Mias bio dad replied in these threads?

I feel awful for Mia, this being so public. No matter why she cut him off, she did it for a reason and has a mind of her own as shes getting older. I couldn;'t imagine how anxious this is all making her
Not sure what page it's on but it's in this thread!
 
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i guess the naivety comes with the isolation, alot of kids develop from being around people of their own age and being influenced and exposed to different backgrounds and lifestyles etc hence why school and staying in one location is so essential to a childs development
School isn’t essential to a child’s development. There are thousands and thousands of children in the U.K. that are being home educated (not this home learning) and are developing just great.
 
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School isn’t essential to a child’s development. There are thousands and thousands of children in the U.K. that are being home educated (not this home learning) and are developing just great.
im afraid i feel i worded that quite badly , i meant in the case of the girls. their not around people their own ages nor are they in a stable enough situation to develop etc.
i didnt mean that about the schools i do apologise, i understand home learning works alot for parents and kids alike and it was not my intention to bad mouth that sorry :(
 
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im afraid i feel i worded that quite badly , i meant in the case of the girls. their not around people their own ages nor are they in a stable enough situation to develop etc.
i didnt mean that about the schools i do apologise, i understand home learning works alot for parents and kids alike and it was not my intention to bad mouth that sorry :(
No need to apologise.

most children that are home educated will go to many different home Ed meet ups (ones for socialising and ones for education) as well as being part of things like brownies, beavers, scouts, swimming lessons, swimming club, football teams, gymnastics class, church,kids church activities during the week, friendships and play dates, and so on.

Sadly, the fizz sisters don’t have any of that. They don’t get the chance to make any friends or socialise, they don’t get to join clubs, it’s actually heartbreaking.
 
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No need to apologise.

most children that are home educated will go to many different home Ed meet ups (ones for socialising and ones for education) as well as being part of things like brownies, beavers, scouts, swimming lessons, swimming club, football teams, gymnastics class, church,kids church activities during the week, friendships and play dates, and so on.

Sadly, the fizz sisters don’t have any of that. They don’t get the chance to make any friends or socialise, they don’t get to join clubs, it’s actually heartbreaking.
Mia and Sienna did do some of these things when they lived in Brighton. Mia mentioned being a girl guide and Sienna used to do gymnastics. Sienna seemed to really enjoy it as well so it’s quite sad how she can’t really join any proper classes or teams because she’s never anywhere long enough to properly settle down. I’m sure Mia was part of clubs and did normal things children do when she was growing up, which is why I find it kind of strange how detatched she is from kids her age seeing as she’s the one who’s had the most time socialising. I wonder if Darren and Georgie have sort of trained her to think all she needs is her immediate family and that she doesn’t need friends her age or anyone else to develop, causing her to act so strange now.
 
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Mia and Sienna did do some of these things when they lived in Brighton. Mia mentioned being a girl guide and Sienna used to do gymnastics. Sienna seemed to really enjoy it as well so it’s quite sad how she can’t really join any proper classes or teams because she’s never anywhere long enough to properly settle down. I’m sure Mia was part of clubs and did normal things children do when she was growing up, which is why I find it kind of strange how detatched she is from kids her age seeing as she’s the one who’s had the most time socialising. I wonder if Darren and Georgie have sort of trained her to think all she needs is her immediate family and that she doesn’t need friends her age or anyone else to develop, causing her to act so strange now.
It really is so strange tbh!
 
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Hi, sorry I am new to this thread, could someone point me in the direction where Mias bio dad replied in these threads?

I feel awful for Mia, this being so public. No matter why she cut him off, she did it for a reason and has a mind of her own as shes getting older. I couldn;'t imagine how anxious this is all making her
She doesn't have a mind of her own. She's brainwashed by her parents and agrees with/believes everything they say, because she's manipulated by the lies they most likely tell her about her dad to stop her wanting to see him. As mias dad mentioned a few pages back, She wanted to move in with her dad, but then she all of a sudden changed her mind a few days later and didn't want to. Then georgie and Darren took her abroad and she never saw him again and says she doesn't want to. Why the sudden change in her decision just days before she's meant to move in? Why decide she never wants to see him again? That's a red flag to me. I can assume she was manipulated to go abroad with them, with the promise of having nice things/doing fun things and not having to go to school like she would if she lived with her dad. I believe Darren and georgie have poisoned her head with lies and manipulation, maybe telling her things like her dad is just jealous and doesn't want her to be happy etc.. I was emotionally abused myself and was very naive and childlike at that time in my life. Mia reminds me of how I was. The whole situation has red flags to me
 
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I think they pay a moderator and tell them to delete and block any negativity or criticizing of them. Fair enough when it's not warranted but with Darren and Georgie, it almost always is warranted. They're REALLY shady.
 
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Hey, does anyone know what’s happened with mias dad and if anything is happening. It seems to have died down and no one seems to be commenting about it in their posts so I just wanted to see if anyone has any updates?
 
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Hey, does anyone know what’s happened with mias dad and if anything is happening. It seems to have died down and no one seems to be commenting about it in their posts so I just wanted to see if anyone has any updates?
As far as I know we haven't had any new updates here… Not since his videos came down
 
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As far as I know we haven't had any new updates here… Not since his videos came down
I think Georgie and Darren know about this thread, so probably told Mia’s dad to stay off here as well.
Also, Georgie and Darren if you’re reading this:
1. You’re setting your kids up for failure by shut them off from the world.
2. Stop travelling and ignoring restrictions, this virus is killing thousands of people and people like you aren’t helping. You’re selfish and stupid if you don’t believe the rules apply to you or the pandemics a hoax because there’s no way you can look at what’s going on in the world and see the damage of the pandemic and not believe it’s real.
3. Get your kids an education! Mia’s not going to be able to get any jobs by just saying she knows some Spanish, or can draw or edit. She needs qualifications and proper experience, even if she’s going to work for herself because that’ll mean she’ll be offering her services to others. I was advertising for someone to help edit something I’d take the person with qualifications not the one who grew up on YouTube. At least let Sienna go to a proper school and send the little ones to nursery and school when they’re older. Mia might not see the point but Sienna wants to be a scientist and needs serious qualifications to get there.
4. Stop clickbaiting what went down between Mia and her dad but then saying people who pick up on it would feel terrible for asking if they knew the truth!
5. Stop letting your teenage daughter pose in skimpy outfits in photos and videos. You know it’s attracting the wrong kind of audience and it’s disgusting.
 
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Hey, does anyone know what’s happened with mias dad and if anything is happening. It seems to have died down and no one seems to be commenting about it in their posts so I just wanted to see if anyone has any updates?
We figure he was threatened in some way by Darren and Georgie to make him take his videos down and stop posting etc.
 
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Interesting they seem to think what is essentially a permanent vacation is adequate education. As if there is something inherently valuable about doing workbooks in an empty apartment just because it's ... in Mexico.. and not in Brighton? Even if there was something inherently valuable, what meaningful connection do any of them have to Mexican culture? They have no Mexican friends, not even the kids. They move from luxury airbnb to airbnb and call it cultural exposure because maybe they have to buy Spanish branded tofu. Any cultural exposure could only come from living in the community which they don't.

Not to mention the fact it's one of 6 countries they've lived in since 2018. There is only so much kids can keep separate when it is all the same blur of holiday apartments.

I worry so much for Sienna. Mia just creeps me out at this point with her weird blend of too childish and too adult, the unfounded confidence. I would feel bad but it's too much cringe.
 
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One comment I'd make RE: Mia not having friends her own age and only hanging out with younger siblings, hence being likely to talk about childish things until adulthood. The Ingham Family send their kids to school (although last year when the UK closed schools, they took an extended holiday abroad all summer and apparently have taken their kids off the school registers so legally they are classed as home-schooled or 'receiving education by otherwise means than school' as the Education Act phrases it) but they seem to not allow the girls to play with friends in their own age group. The oldest girl has two maternal half-sisters who are 4 and 7 years younger than her and it seems odd that her parents push her to play with her young siblings rather than let her have friends near her own age. So it's not an issue reserved for home-educated kids. I agree that G and D, in particular, are controlling of the kids so they aren't letting them do things outside the home so the problem is exacerbated.
 
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We figure he was threatened in some way by Darren and Georgie to make him take his videos down and stop posting etc.
That is really annoying and upsetting if he is just trying to get back in contact with his daughter and they are just rejecting him.
 
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I think Georgie and Darren know about this thread, so probably told Mia’s dad to stay off here as well.
Also, Georgie and Darren if you’re reading this:
1. You’re setting your kids up for failure by shut them off from the world.
2. Stop travelling and ignoring restrictions, this virus is killing thousands of people and people like you aren’t helping. You’re selfish and stupid if you don’t believe the rules apply to you or the pandemics a hoax because there’s no way you can look at what’s going on in the world and see the damage of the pandemic and not believe it’s real.
3. Get your kids an education! Mia’s not going to be able to get any jobs by just saying she knows some Spanish, or can draw or edit. She needs qualifications and proper experience, even if she’s going to work for herself because that’ll mean she’ll be offering her services to others. I was advertising for someone to help edit something I’d take the person with qualifications not the one who grew up on YouTube. At least let Sienna go to a proper school and send the little ones to nursery and school when they’re older. Mia might not see the point but Sienna wants to be a scientist and needs serious qualifications to get there.
4. Stop clickbaiting what went down between Mia and her dad but then saying people who pick up on it would feel terrible for asking if they knew the truth!
5. Stop letting your teenage daughter pose in skimpy outfits in photos and videos. You know it’s attracting the wrong kind of audience and it’s disgusting.
PREACH! I hope they know about this thread and how idiotic their behaviour, lifestyle and everything is coming across. They may have followers now but just give it time, no one will care.
 
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I agree with all that has been said. The more awareness we raise the better, although I sadly do think it's too late for the younger ones. From personal experience with living with manipulating people, I understand it is going to be so hard for Mia to be able to see what D and G have done to her. In the same way I did, Mia will finally realise what's going on here and realise how selfish and controlling her parents really are! As for Seinna she is a really lovely and bright girl it would such a shame for all that talent to go to wase
 
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Has no one ever told Mia not to wear colours that are similar to her skin tone?? A pic she posted on her insta came up on my discover page of her in a nude swimming costume, and I had to do a double take lmaooo
 
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Has no one ever told Mia not to wear colours that are similar to her skin tone?? A pic she posted on her insta came up on my discover page of her in a nude swimming costume, and I had to do a double take lmaooo
Probably intentional 🥴
 
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