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Thanks to those who replied.

Apologies but I don’t think I made myself clear at all in all the venting.

Beyond the initial interactions I didn’t talk to this person and did my best to avoid them. I didn’t like their “vibe” and I’d just rather not be in the same space.

I don’t feel personally tricked, just angry and upset that this person took up space that I was enjoying. I really don’t know how to express how I’m feeling, but I do feel better after venting anyway.

Nothing in particular happened. But I was just a bit upset and needed a place to express that. A bit like witnessing a car crash from a distance and not being harmed in the slightest. I’m sensitive and find people difficult. I know this is a non issue for most people.

I don’t think there’s anyone to block right now but am sure they will be back under another new guise.

@Sheabutter basically the same sex flirting thread starts off normally - X wants boy/girl advice. But then there’s a bit of tattler sleuthing and maths done and they think X is also another user. And somehow the thread thinks the other/same user has been lying about who they are. Potentially an older man pretending to be a younger lesbian. And all sorts of stuff. It was entertaining but I suppose for me it was like watching a movie where you really dislike the main actors.or maybe you meant the lying online was normal? Sorry if I just recapped the story and you knew already.

Don’t mean to hijack the thread but just wanted to try clarify a few things.

(Edited to add a few things)
I know exactly what you mean. I tried to express similar myself on a couple of threads. Don't feel bad about expressing how you feel and rest assured there are quite a few that feel the same. There are loads of genuine people here though so don't stop posting 🤗.
 
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Any legal eagles out there? Our eldest son lives in Japan - his partner is Filipino, they have a child together (our beautiful grandson), however they are not legally married and Mum could be deported because her Japanese national brother-in-law refused to sign her visa application.
Said grandson has a British passport

He couldn't have a Japanese one, although he was born there - the British passport was his best option

#Before you believe in anyone else, believe in yourself

New thread #Before you believe in anything
else believe in yourself

Oh goodness, you're all wonderful - despite your troubles you have spirit your souls x

spirit in your souls
 
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Hi guys,

Thought I'd update you all on how it's going.

Therapist suggested behavioural activation so today started incorporating some basic steps into my WFH routine like going for a lunchtime walk and drinking my daily water intake. It was good and I felt good too. I have had duloxetine recommended so I will be speaking to the GP about that tomorrow, hopefully it helps

Having a dip tonight, have a couple of weeks with very little social arrangements, lots of poorly friends means I don't have much time being spent with them, it makes me very anxious, I worry I'm a total loser or something. Think I'll be better once I've given the new routine a chance and get new meds in my system. Hope you lovely lot are OK x
 
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Hi guys,

Thought I'd update you all on how it's going.

Therapist suggested behavioural activation so today started incorporating some basic steps into my WFH routine like going for a lunchtime walk and drinking my daily water intake. It was good and I felt good too. I have had duloxetine recommended so I will be speaking to the GP about that tomorrow, hopefully it helps

Having a dip tonight, have a couple of weeks with very little social arrangements, lots of poorly friends means I don't have much time being spent with them, it makes me very anxious, I worry I'm a total loser or something. Think I'll be better once I've given the new routine a chance and get new meds in my system. Hope you lovely lot are OK x

You have done great stuff in making this progress.
Give it a bit more time for the new medication etc to kick in and you will feel much better.

New thread -

 
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