So I’ve had a quick scan of the first thread and even since. Then I really think Eben has this idea that she is really lovely, and she genuinely thinks she’s so lovely and puree and so anything she does is just ‘twisted by trolls’ and LL, Freya, Yaz and the rest all enable this behaviour by calling her lovely, making her out to be so pure that she wants to walk where her parents used to take her etc.
But this is where the issue is, is that she then uses this as the excuse that she is really nasty, and has been a bully throughout her life, but then writes it off as being reactive to someone, or responsive towards them, even when she has started the issue or lied to make herself feel better and then when caught out it’s a problem because someone has constantly gone away and found the holes in her lies and she feels victimised.
If she was held to the standard that lying is wrong, don’t exaggerate to the high heavens, don’t pretend everything perfect, she would not have these problems. she shouts be kind when she’s unable to be kind towards someone without being backhanded and she always has it worse.
These videos seem to show someone breaking down now because she is so caught up in this act, that it’s spiralling now she’s been caught out and the only way to stop is to delete the account and allow LL, Yaz and Freya to continue her narrative as they can try and play it that way