So because other people aren't doing it it makes it all okay?
As that is what these posts imply.
duck the children who have lost parents, duck the children who have died alone, duck the countless people who have suffered horribly, duck the families who never got to say good-bye.
If that were me who died and my family acted like that I'd be horrified. What a way to spit directly in the face of all of the healthcare workers who supported you during the entire diagnosis and illness, professionals who are no doubt exposed each day, pushed to work to the limit, transferred in to other departments and some having to choose between their own family and work.
It is so disrespectful to everyone.