Hi,
I have tried everything & thought let’s turn to tattle and the font of all your knowledge. I know no one in the same boat as me and I am at breaking point well and truly.
Basically my 8 year old doesn’t sleep. From the moment we brought him home from hospital he hasn’t never slept well. I was a young mum & thought maybe I’d just got it all wrong, then I had my youngest and he slept like a dream from day 1 despite nothing being different in the way I handled sleep.
We are now 8 years on. It can take 4/5 hours to get him to sleep, then he’s awake through the night at least once sometimes more. We try and put him back in his bed but by 3am we run out of steam and he just gets in our bed, sometimes I don’t actually hear him and wake up with him in our bed. As soon as bedtime is mentioned that’s it. Hysteria. Usually outbursts of anger, which can vary in severity.
He does occasionally sleep through but it’s rare and usually if he’s only fallen asleep around midnight.
I’m at serious breaking point I’m having panic attacks and im very ashamed to admit, suicidal thoughts.
It’s destroying my marriage as we get no evenings together at all. I want to cry when people talk about the latest tv shows as we couldn’t dream of being able to watch tv at night. And of course it’s affecting his behaviour in the day.
He’s a very bright child with no diagnoses of ASD, he’s is popular, kind, but he struggles with his emotions and has terrible anger outbursts. He is quite an anxious worrier too.
I’ve recently tried going right back to basics with a really strict bedtime routine that starts at 6 with no more screens, bath, stories, school reading, playing a game, then a gentle persuasion into bed, and it worked for 3 days. There’s not much I haven’t tried but I’m struggling now, I’m getting around 3 hours sleep a night.
We have a doctors app finally on 15th feb. I’m not sure what to ask, or should I be thinking there could be more to this?
Anyone in the same boat? Or any Advice.
From a broken mum x
I have tried everything & thought let’s turn to tattle and the font of all your knowledge. I know no one in the same boat as me and I am at breaking point well and truly.
Basically my 8 year old doesn’t sleep. From the moment we brought him home from hospital he hasn’t never slept well. I was a young mum & thought maybe I’d just got it all wrong, then I had my youngest and he slept like a dream from day 1 despite nothing being different in the way I handled sleep.
We are now 8 years on. It can take 4/5 hours to get him to sleep, then he’s awake through the night at least once sometimes more. We try and put him back in his bed but by 3am we run out of steam and he just gets in our bed, sometimes I don’t actually hear him and wake up with him in our bed. As soon as bedtime is mentioned that’s it. Hysteria. Usually outbursts of anger, which can vary in severity.
He does occasionally sleep through but it’s rare and usually if he’s only fallen asleep around midnight.
I’m at serious breaking point I’m having panic attacks and im very ashamed to admit, suicidal thoughts.
It’s destroying my marriage as we get no evenings together at all. I want to cry when people talk about the latest tv shows as we couldn’t dream of being able to watch tv at night. And of course it’s affecting his behaviour in the day.
He’s a very bright child with no diagnoses of ASD, he’s is popular, kind, but he struggles with his emotions and has terrible anger outbursts. He is quite an anxious worrier too.
I’ve recently tried going right back to basics with a really strict bedtime routine that starts at 6 with no more screens, bath, stories, school reading, playing a game, then a gentle persuasion into bed, and it worked for 3 days. There’s not much I haven’t tried but I’m struggling now, I’m getting around 3 hours sleep a night.
We have a doctors app finally on 15th feb. I’m not sure what to ask, or should I be thinking there could be more to this?
Anyone in the same boat? Or any Advice.
From a broken mum x