Dee Devlin

[Foxvint]

Colleen is a lovely and genuine person who wanted to keep her family together. She does shitloads quietly and privately behind the scenes for disabled kids, hospices and charity. There's a good reason shes very loved in Liverpool. I don't think its fair to compare her to Dee at all. And while Wayne was a cheating toerag to her at one point, he's not a fucking rapist. She stood by a cheat, not a sex offender.

I think that viral tweet about Dee was spot on. She's either a victim herself or the stupidest woman in Ireland.
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Connor has proven how spectacularly thick he is by saying he'll appeal too. The lawyers will just take the money regardless if that's what he wants to do but he's certainly not getting good advice cos you can only appeal on the grounds of you not getting a fair trial- not because you didn't get the outcome you wanted.

Dee should get out now while there's still some child support money left before it all goes up his nose and on legal blustering.

 

[Righto22]

Ya we have been saying it for years since her account become a shrine to him & her calling him daddy. It seems fake

I can't cope with anyone calling their man "Daddy" turns me

 

[writteninthestars]

I’ll say it … she is a simple cunt

 

[emcc86]

So glad I found this thread, I've found my people! Lol.......Long rant incoming, sorry! I felt really conflicted about Dee up until recently. Any recent photos of her she does look like she's completely shell shocked and dissociated. However this weeks instagram post from her has really sickened me, it's hard to empathize with her at all now. I know there's doubt whether she actually posted the vile rant or it was McGregor but I actually wouldn't be surprised if it was her. To me it read like the type of shit she would be spouting if she was coked off her head, trying to convince herself it's everyone elses fault but the rapist she's defending. I wouldn't be surprised if she had a few lines before she posted it.

None of them thought Nikita would win against the scumbag, I'm so so glad she did. I'd guess the only reason we are hearing anything from Dee now is because the world finally see's how fucked up the dynamic with McGregor and her really is and they are being hit where it hurts now by loosing money with all the brands being pulled and deals falling through. Finally realizing that they don't have the power and popularity they once had, especially in Ireland.

There's also no way in all the years they've been together his anger and abuse hasn't been aimed at her many many times. So she definitely knows what the monster is capable of. I'd say in the beginning of his fame when he became a big global star, the wealth and the lifestyle probably made it easier for her to accept and excuse as the good times maybe outweighed the bad. She had already invested so many years of her life with him before he was even successful and she knows he would never let her move on if she ever left him so she just accepted it I'd say. I wouldn't be surprised if they had an agreement of an open relationship (on his side, not hers) because you'd like to think there's no way any woman would just accept the level of cheating he does otherwise. Maybe she was even relieved that he was out shagging other people as it meant he probably left her alone sometimes as I have no doubt he'd rape her too if she ever refused his advances. The disgusting pig never likes to be told no by anyone. She probably hoped he'd be a bit more discreet about the cheating but he doesn't respect her so he doesn't care enough to even hide it, or even wear condoms. Dirty bastard. It's one thing if she turns a blind eye to him having consensual sex with other women but now excusing him of rape, and blaming Nikita, she is clearly fucked up in the head.

Regarding those poor innocent kids, there's no doubt they live in a constant toxic environment, it's awful to think about what they've seen and heard. I'd say in the beginning Dee just wanted to be a mother and convinced herself it would be fine (as fucked up as that is) so she kept having his babies, also since they aren't married let's not forget the more kids she has to him the more financially secure she will be either way. As bad as that sounds it's true. I think this is only the beginning of their downfall too, Nikita's bravery has opened the floodgates and I hope lots of other women are now compelled to report him to the police. Let's see!

 

[Mack]

I will also warn my sons that women like Nikita exist.
Strong, brave women that will stand up for themselves no matter who it is they are up against!
I hope she warns her daughter that men like her father exist. Men that will openly cheat in a seedy hotel room, having “athletic sex” while their pregnant girlfriend is at home. Men that think they are so entitled they don’t even think about consent.
Dee lost an awful lot of respect with those instagram posts, I honestly dont know how they both havent lost any followers.

 

[writteninthestars]

I tried to have sympathy for her but mentioning how she will warm her sons and not a mention of her beautiful daughter. Nah she is a yoke

 

[Padparadascha]

He's an utter narcissist. If she did try to leave he would make it his life's work to destroy her every way he knows how. And she will walk away with fuck all, and not be able to protect her kids from his rages if theres split custody.
Best she can hope for is he trades her in for a new mot in a few years and whitewashes her and his kids out of his brand new shiny life. That way she might get a few quid out of him to piss off quietly.

I'm on the fence. I believe she's a victim, but also her SM posts have suggested she as nasty as him. As far as I'm concerned I think she's both.

 

[NoseyWagon22]

I agree, I used to feel sorry for her with all this , she’s not responsible for what he did but she is responsible for typing or allowing that on her social media , she is a disgusting excuse of a women to victim blame , all this shite about trauma bonding ( everyone’s an expert now. we don’t know what goes on behind closed doors so until I see solid evidence she’s been abused or comes out and says it.she is responsible for shaming a rape victim. Shame on her and the rest of them

this exactly! I felt pity for her being cheated on so openly and publicly and if she is willing to look the other way she is a fool. He won't marry her but he dangles the carrot in front of her. She has 4 kids with a rapist, he probably has half a dozen more scattered about the place. They are scum and the children are a pity. She has no self respect or dignity to walk away. That's all on her. Her attempt to stand by her man backfired severely. His behaviour as a rapist however is all on him and only him. He has zero respect for women and if I was his mother I'd question where I went wrong raising my son to be like that.

 

[Twintwin]

Guys is Dee slow? Like honestly I think she might be.

 

[EllaBella89]

Truly shocked (or perhaps not) that these two coke heads let their kids climb up on things on a yacht, with no vests. While they lay around gurning their tits off, posting on social media. Absolute state of them

 

[Dubdoll14]

I’ll say it … she is a simple cunt

I agree, I used to feel sorry for her with all this , she’s not responsible for what he did but she is responsible for typing or allowing that on her social media , she is a disgusting excuse of a women to victim blame , all this shite about trauma bonding ( everyone’s an expert now. we don’t know what goes on behind closed doors so until I see solid evidence she’s been abused or comes out and says it.she is responsible for shaming a rape victim. Shame on her and the rest of them

 

[Foxvint]

If he's put some business assets in her name that's purely for tax purposes and spreading risk. She doesn't appear to do anything but have his babies and set the conversation on sexual violence back by about 50 years.

 

[Flibbertigibbet]

Maybe it’s just me but I’ve long suspected that they have some kind of arrangement, but he just gets sloppy and his indiscretions end up being public knowledge.

Do I think she’s a doormat? I’m undecided, however, I’m no expert but I think she fears she has a lot to lose by walking away, because she has already invested so much in the relationship.

Off topic- what is Dee short for?

Dee is short for Deirdre. Usually pronounced Deir-dra, not Deirdree like Mrs Barlow-Hunt-Langton-Rachid.

And I am as undecided as you.

I was thinking of Harvey Weinstein's wife., Georgina Chapman. She was a mediocre designer of frilly princess-type dresses, and when she married Weinstein, he bullied several of his biggest female stars to wear her frocks to the Oscars and other red carpets. He also got her a gig on Project Runway as a judge or presenter, can't remember which.

Anyway, she came out with a statement about how shocked and horrified she was when Weinstein's abuses came to light. I don't believe for a second he ever lifted a finger to her - I believe they had an arrangement in which he would support her career if she looked pretty on his arm and gave him children. (I'm basing this on the same impression I have of Melania Trump - I mean, how could anyone let those pigs touch them?) I think Chapman must have known about the abuse of young women but turned a blind eye, and she knew that she had to disown him immediately or she would go down with him.

Chapman had advantages that Dee doesn't - a marriage & access to lawyers of her own, an education, a career, and lots of high profile people on her side. So she got a huge settlement and a spread in Vogue, and a new relationship with Adrien Brody - another pig of a man - look at how he treated Halle Berry at the Oscars.

I think Dee, whether she has been physically harmed or otherwise coerced by McGregor or not, has nowhere to run and nobody to turn to if she wants an easy life. She has a choice, like Nikita did, she's just not brave or principled enough to take it.

 

[RinsedHoops]

Complicated feelings towards Dee. I have no doubt that she’s abused, probably physically mentally and sexually and that’s absolutely done a number on her mental health, her perception of herself and she’s probably abusing substances to cope.

But she’s an adult and a mother. She owes it to her children to protect them from abuse and model healthy relationships. What she’s done is throw a woman who her partner has victimised under a bus in public because her internalised misogyny can’t conceive of a world where her abuser’s behaviour isn’t a woman’s fault.

 

[I got up at 5am]

I still have sympathy for her buried deep. She’s beaten down by him but I can’t excuse her comments about Nikita and I won’t make excuses for her. The whole thing makes me sad for her & Nikita albeit at different levels

 

[Wellthisisinteresting]

I have absolutely no sympathy for her, supporting her vile rapist husband and then victim blaming her for his actions YUCK! Get in the bin!

 

[Calalily4]

Welcome to Doormat Dee's thread

 

[JAR21]

Hi Guys - Ive been over and over her vile IG post - and I was wondering - could it be possible that she doesnt even have access to her IG account? I wouldnt put it past Mc Rapist?

If so, he had help, because he can't spell and it's too articulate to have been him on his own!

 

[Twintwin]

I think she's so detached from him that this is just transactional and easier to co habit

Don’t agree. She is completely obsessed with him you can see this in the videos of her constantly caressing him.

 

[Humblebrag]

I’m still really on the fence. Her posts about Nikita were of course abhorrent, but I guess the level of abuse Dee is subjected to do influences how I’d feel about them - eg was he standing over her making her write them on threat of violence? We currently don’t know if she actually fears for her life. She has the means to escape which a lot of women would kill for, but domestic violence is very complex and I know it’s not as simple as “just leave”. I guess we won’t know unless she does leave and decides to speak out and right now I can’t see that happening.

I'd say it is horrendous what goes on behind closed doors in that family, the look in the eldest eyes in all the photographs, the poor child looks so sad and must have witnessed horrific behaviour by that animal