I need to get this out because I feel ASHAMED and like, potentially need some advice.
So I’m now happily in a relationship which is the important part here. My past hoe behaviour, however, is catching up with me
I hooked up with a guy, let’s called him Doctor, back in March. Weird as
duck, liked the whole idea I was a nurse way too much. Never saw him again and I was FINE with that. Messaged me a couple of weeks after, literally wrote boring sexts and that was that. I’ve since met someone who’s not weird or into that
tit, and not in healthcare. Best thing I could have ever done.
He messaged again a week ago (after he last messaged in April - like I had forgotten about this man LOL) and something has been unsettling me like who just randomly gets back in touch 5 months later. Like I did my due diligence last time but apparently not enough because DOCTOR HAD A WHOLE ASS LONG TERM GIRLFRIEND. Like when I say years, easily 4+
The disgusted woman in me really thinks I should contact the girlfriend and inform her that Doctor is a waste of space and she can do so much better but equally they don’t live near me, I’m unlikely to ever get surgery at the hospital he works in and he’s very unlikely to fall unconscious and need critical care at the hospital I will be going to work at. So can I just ignore this, let her find out her boyfriend is a
twit on her own especially because I don’t need someone domestic
tit in my life? It was only ever supposed to be a random hook up anyway?!
Also my friend is also telling me I told you so here and BOY DID SHE TELL ME SO. Doctors, don’t date, hook up or marry them. They’re all arrogant twats.