Dating after lockdown #24 they're participation trophies at best

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Bet there's no food, just the dick - that's if he can tear himself away from wanking to porn & fantasies that he's attractive. šŸ˜‰
 
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Hey guys. Just having a really sad day today. Been thinking about my ex-guy a lot and I really miss him.
I know it will take time. And I know there's probably someone out there for me (for all of us) that actually deserves us. I'm just finding that hard to believe today. I don't have much to really say, just wanted to write my feelings down.
I hope you're all ok x
 
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Hey guys. Just having a really sad day today. Been thinking about my ex-guy a lot and I really miss him.
I know it will take time. And I know there's probably someone out there for me (for all of us) that actually deserves us. I'm just finding that hard to believe today. I don't have much to really say, just wanted to write my feelings down.
I hope you're all ok x
Must be something in the water, Iā€™ve been thinking about mine too. Memories of this time last year across social apps are not helping.

Good that youā€™ve messaged here and not reached out. You deserve the world šŸ’—

Take care xx
 
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Hey guys. Just having a really sad day today. Been thinking about my ex-guy a lot and I really miss him.
I know it will take time. And I know there's probably someone out there for me (for all of us) that actually deserves us. I'm just finding that hard to believe today. I don't have much to really say, just wanted to write my feelings down.
I hope you're all ok x
we are here for you and are rooting for you and your healing šŸ’—

Must be something in the water, Iā€™ve been thinking about mine too.
I think a lot of ppl get nostalgic as christmas starts to arrive (me included) like don't we all want to be kissed by the christmas tree whilst it's snowing out side ...lol ew cringe !! (joke i want it)
 
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Definitely something in the air. I guess my ā€œbreak upā€ is still fresh so feeling it a lot šŸ˜” heā€™s confused me since so have only just stopped communication today but he made a comment which stung a bit too however I donā€™t even think he realised what he said. Part of me feels like I ruined this myself but then in the next breath I think how can me being uncomfortable with something result in a reaction like this. Also when we have spoken about it, the stuff he says back just doesnā€™t fit with his actions of ending things. My heads just a shed. Definitely staying single for the foreseeable.
Hope everyone else is okay.
Hope all you guys that have met people that itā€™s still going well šŸ’•
 
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This time of year is always difficult but remember it isnā€™t all happiness behind those ā€˜run up to Christmasā€™ social media posts.

Every year my friend posts the typical posts but behind the scenes her boyfriend is on porn 24/7 and spending his entire day at work looking at naked women on Twitter and OF.
 
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Definitely something in the air. I guess my ā€œbreak upā€ is still fresh so feeling it a lot šŸ˜” heā€™s confused me since so have only just stopped communication today but he made a comment which stung a bit too however I donā€™t even think he realised what he said. Part of me feels like I ruined this myself but then in the next breath I think how can me being uncomfortable with something result in a reaction like this. Also when we have spoken about it, the stuff he says back just doesnā€™t fit with his actions of ending things. My heads just a shed. Definitely staying single for the foreseeable.
Hope everyone else is okay.
Hope all you guys that have met people that itā€™s still going well šŸ’•
Itā€™s natural to question yourself and if you caused it. You didnā€™t. If he cared about you and was more emotionally mature, he would have shown empathy and understood his actions werenā€™t exactly fair several months into dating you. If youā€™re already questioning him, and yourself, then that alone tells you it wasnā€™t the right fit x
 
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It is a difficult time of year, naturally you find yourself thinking of previous years (and relationships) and also reflecting on the year that's coming to a close, and that can tend to make the end of relationships feel more final.

I've been thinking of my Ex, a lot has happened in my life in the last week or so that only he would 'get', and I have no one to share it with. I've also been talking to a friend who's having some issues with her partner; and that's reaffirmed that a lot of things in my relationship with my Ex were unhealthy. He loved me, made me laugh, we had loads in common but he also had a terrifying temper and I would spend a lot of time walking on eggshells to avoid an explosion, or pacifying him when he was having a toddler tantrum because of some minor inconvenience. I miss him, but I definitely don't miss that.
 
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Well I had a date tonight, absolutely lovely guy had a great time. I just don't know if the sexual attraction is there
 
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Well I had a date tonight, absolutely lovely guy had a great time. I just don't know if the sexual attraction is there
Yay! I was wondering about your date tonight when I came onto the thread!

Attraction can grow over time, it doesn't have to be immediate sparks - if you had a great time, maybe it's worth exploring a bit further?
 
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Yay! I was wondering about your date tonight when I came onto the thread!

Attraction can grow over time, it doesn't have to be immediate sparks - if you had a great time, maybe it's worth exploring a bit further?
Yeah, I'm going to see him again and gauge how I feel after that. Thank you for thinking of me
 
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Anyone who saw any my last posts about me going mad and having anxiety , my gut instinct wasn't wrong ,found my ex was texting his ex partner asking for her back and sending her gifts bit of kick in the teeth to day the least.
 
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Anyone who saw any my last posts about me going mad and having anxiety , my gut instinct wasn't wrong ,found my ex was texting his ex partner asking for her back and sending her gifts bit of kick in the teeth to day the least.
What a WANKER. So many 'mental health problems' are caused by bad relationships ā¤
 
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He did. He made me think I was too blame my mental health was at its lowest because of him x
If you're a decent person and trusting then you don't expect this sort of behaviour. It can be quite insidious though so you don't realise at first what is going on, it builds up and has you questioning everything.

Now is the time for YOU though, the trash has taken itself out. Now only if the trash actually would!!
 
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