OMG this! I have pink velvet dining chairs and I often look at them and thank heavens a man’s grubby paw prints aren’t anywhere near! I am becoming very very selfish in my singlehood. I will meet a guy for a coffee as long as it fits perfectly within my schedule and they come to me! Long gone are the days when I spent hours dolling up for a first date. They take me as they find me now and it’s 90 min tops. I keep promising myself I’ll make the effort for the second date when I know they’re worth it but I have yet to meet a man I want to see twice.i love the rest of your posti think this all the time. as much as i’d like companionship i think i would want it on extremely specific terms - i too can’t deal with someone in my space for more than a few hours. sometimes i look around my lovely house and think “a MAN?! HERE?!” and it gives me the chills.
pink velvet dining chairs?!?!?OMG this! I have pink velvet dining chairs and I often look at them and thank heavens a man’s grubby paw prints aren’t anywhere near! I am becoming very very selfish in my singlehood. I will meet a guy for a coffee as long as it fits perfectly within my schedule and they come to me! Long gone are the days when I spent hours dolling up for a first date. They take me as they find me now and it’s 90 min tops. I keep promising myself I’ll make the effort for the second date when I know they’re worth it but I have yet to meet a man I want to see twice.
I wonder if I’m ruling them out because I don’t want to compromise and have to relax my routine or if I’m just allowing myself have decent standards now whereas in the past I’d have given everyone second dates if they wanted one!
actually I do know. I haven’t fancied a single one. When you know you know, and I won’t hear any different
my house honestly looks like a dolls house, i love pastels and pretty little floral prints and stuff, the thought of a MAN trampling around here makes me sad. i’ve also become very selfish in the way that i’ve also become very bitter 
dating journey with so much optimism and excitement, and am now just full of hatred towards men. like you say, finding one that i both fancy and would be happy spending time with? who even knows if he exists but i’m not settling for anything less than i deserve. i’m done with average men thinking they can treat me so flippantly. get in the bin etc. why should i, you or anyone here have to compromise or relax routines for men when 90% of them won’t do the same back?! get on that velvet chair, have a lovely drink of your choice, grab a great book and remember your worth 
Gobshite.I hope she is OK too.. I can relate to how she feels as I have similar traits
I’m glad it made you laugh @LaBlonde hopefully it will help with the covid recovery. 
i hope she’s okay too - i’ve been thinking of her
this arrangement is my absolute dream! i honestly think it should be more the norm - it gives both people their own space and a place to go to be by themselves if/when needed.
Not a "load" to be had thereGet a load of this gym babe!
You think he'd be embarrassed! Not a bit of it. In his eyes he's a god. Gross.
Crikey, is that the effect of steroids?! Where is it?Get a load of this gym babe!
It probably is photoshopped, but it makes the point. All muscles and posing… and you know disappointment awaitsOh is that a real photo? I thought it was photoshopped
brilliant. Not really finding anyone who doesn’t just want a shag/FWB situation and that’s just not for me.. Why do they get offended when you say you’re not looking for a fling or a one night stand. Not sorry for saying that I don’t want to sleep with you!
