So follow on from my date! I said that as he was shy and introverted, plus that I organised the date myself, I wasn’t going to follow up or plan anything but would be open to a second date. Well I haven’t heard from him since (apart from a message to say he had a nice night etc after the date). I’m fine with this as I really want equal effort in a relationship but overall was a lovely guy and had a lovely first date.
I also matched with the other guy I’m having a date with on Saturday on the same day as him and I saw it took 35 messages between the fire fighter and I to get to date talk and 8 between me and the other guy who is my date on Saturday. So I am optimistic about Saturday, my one criteria is I’ll go on a date if your penis isn’t mentioned in the chat and no penis talk so far! Plus we have a bit more in common and a bit closer in age. Like fire fighter doesnt like travelling and I know it’s a cliche dating app thing but I do like travelling and he’s only been out of the country twice whereas I have lived overseas plus been to almost 30 countries so I have a big passion for it. Anyway, that’s my Monday night wrap up hope everyone had lovely weekends!
I also matched with the other guy I’m having a date with on Saturday on the same day as him and I saw it took 35 messages between the fire fighter and I to get to date talk and 8 between me and the other guy who is my date on Saturday. So I am optimistic about Saturday, my one criteria is I’ll go on a date if your penis isn’t mentioned in the chat and no penis talk so far! Plus we have a bit more in common and a bit closer in age. Like fire fighter doesnt like travelling and I know it’s a cliche dating app thing but I do like travelling and he’s only been out of the country twice whereas I have lived overseas plus been to almost 30 countries so I have a big passion for it. Anyway, that’s my Monday night wrap up hope everyone had lovely weekends!