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justmeandmycat

Hello,
I am still not caught up on the posts. My apologies. But I did see @watermelon sugar post about feeling like no one likes her and saw some of you saying you feel the same as well. I also feel the same a lot of times. I am wondering if our anxiety or whatever these feelings are more common these days. Because when I tried to talk to my parents about my anxiety, it took them years to accept that anxiety can be this debilitating and have an effect on our daily lives and self-esteem. They are still on the fence (to be honest, they have accepted that I am disabled but they can't understand why or how) because for them, they say there are people out there who are homeless/starving/in war and we should be grateful that we are alive and have a roof over our heads and these feelings are just in our minds so we should just throw them away. My mom is 57 and my dad is 67 if that gives some generational context. But it is not easy to do so when we are feeling so inadequate about ourselves and thinking we are unlikable/everyone hates us, isn't it? Sorry to be a Debbie Downer. Just some thoughts I have had. I really appreciate that you all here are so open and transparent with your personal struggles no matter how big or small they are. I was able to work again today and I hope I am on the mend. I am sending good wishes and love to all of you who need them. Just wanted to say thank you to everyone, especially @WilmaHun because we are the same age and you really seem to get the struggles with age-related expectations people (including ourselves) put on us.
On a lighter note, I have thrown myself into r/KUWTK and have been reading every post because it makes me feel so much better about my life. At least, I am not Kanye's ex-wife! I feel for his mental illnesses since I have a few myself but mental illnesses don't give us a free pass to be lashing out at everyone all the time!
 
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Shoequeen91

Anyone ever been to see a physiotherapist? I’m having a bit of trouble with my shoulder, which I’m almost certain is muscular now just given the way the pain does subside if I do some sort of therapy exercise. Just want to know if it’s worth me contacting a physio or essentially following techniques online instead.
 
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watermelon sugar

Morning all I’m still lying in bed cos mini melon is still asleep!? He’s been waking at 6am on the dot since we moved so this is a lie in for me! My bloody fellas salsa music (don’t ask) alarm bloody woke me up though so I’ve just been lying in bed all cosy like a cinnamon bun. I had a dream last night I made a curry in the slow cooker and now I’ve woke up wanting a curry
 
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coconochanel

Morning all, speaking of trainers I really want the Celine high tops but no way am I spending £600 on white trainers.
 
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BelleAmie

Morning fellas

I really need a lie in this weekend, I’m so tired and finding it really hard to drag myself out of bed every morning. Hope you’re all having a good morning so far x
 
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Peaches_xox

Morning! I’m shattered. I can’t have this kid in my bed any longer. I’ve set the expectation that tonight he’s sleeping in his bed and he’s moaned already
I’m feeling a bit down and I just don’t know why! Like I’m constantly on the edge of tears and I don’t know what will cheer me up.
Also work are pissing me off. I didn’t get a commission statement so I chased the guy who sends them and he said he’d get it to me by the end of the day yesterday. Still nothing. JUST SHOW ME HOW MUCH IM GETTING PAID SO I CAN SPEND THE MONEY IN MY HEAD.

God that was really negative I’ll cheer up later promise
 
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Saddlesoap

Yes. I went to see one for my shoulder. They really helped.
 
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BelleAmie

I’m in such a bad mood today, I really feel like I’m going to fly off the handle and lose my shit at any moment. I don’t know what’s wrong with me, it’s not even pms
 
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watermelon sugar

BelleAmie said:
I’m in such a bad mood today, I really feel like I’m going to fly off the handle and lose my shit at any moment. I don’t know what’s wrong with me, it’s not even pms
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your flo will notify you soon like ‘girl you may feel like your gonna lose your shit at any moment’

in all seriousness we all get like that sometimes, mood swings be trippin Hope you feel calmer soon!
 
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fudgebox

@Shoequeen91 i would definitely recommend going to see one, they can pinpoint and help the problem much better than anything online!
 
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BelleAmie

watermelon sugar said:
your flo will notify you soon like ‘girl you may feel like your gonna lose your shit at any moment’

in all seriousness we all get like that sometimes, mood swings be trippin Hope you feel calmer soon!
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I legit don’t know what’s happening to me, I am regularly a grumpy bitch but rarely an angry bitch. I will report back on flo’s prediction of the day!
 
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WilmaHun

Mr Wilma doesn’t set an alarm clock he just relies on me to get him up. I came downstairs this morning and fell asleep on the sofa which is really unlike me. He was meant to be out at 7.30 and I woke up at 7.50! I ran upstairs to get him up and of course i was the worst person EVER for making him late. Not his own fault at all. Nothing to do with not having an alarm. Or not getting home til 10.30 or because he stayed on Xbox until 1am. Nope. My fault
 
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watermelon sugar

Omg my fella is the same he’ll fall asleep on the sofa after darts cos he comes in drunk gone midnight and he literally sets alarms but sleeps through every. Single. One. He has some dodgy salsa song that’s makes me wanna whenever I hear it but it was going off this morning and I was just lying in bed listening to it cos I was comfy so when the baby woke up and we came downstairs at 7am, my fella was all ‘WHY DIDNT YOU WAKE ME UP’ I was like ‘listen mate it ain’t my problem you slept through EVERY salsa alarm since 6am is it’
 
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Peaches_xox

My fella has an alarm set for 7:15 every morning but has absolutely nowhere to be and he sleeps through it. It makes me beyond angry especially now when little peaches isn’t at school and I don’t have to be up until 8:59am!
 
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watermelon sugar

Omg on his days off as well my fellas alarm will go off at 6am and he sleeps through them all !! He sits up and snoozes them and goes back to sleep. Until I get to it first and throw it at the wall turn it off
 
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