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He's sent her brownies apparently 
I didn't realise just how predictable she is!
I didn't realise just how predictable she is!Definitely apology browniesCarrie and Scott are still friends, he sent her brownies. Apology brownies or just friend brownies?
People have been suggesting they aren't together and suddenly she posts a picture with him. I had a valid point
Great title. It reminds me of Heathers - the censored version performed in schools has the line "all hope is gone, I'm a dead girl walking ..."
Meanwhile Cinderella still looks awful. I've seen a couple of people on other sites say they have higher hopes for the show since Emerald Fennell won an Oscar ... I can't say I agree. If anything it will only make things worse if the reviews are bad. I note Cinderella's alternate is Georgina Onuorah who's a recent graduate, all I can say is there'll be drama if she gets a better reception than Carrie
Meanwhile Cinderella still looks awful. I've seen a couple of people on other sites say they have higher hopes for the show since Emerald Fennell won an Oscar ... I can't say I agree. If anything it will only make things worse if the reviews are bad. I note Cinderella's alternate is Georgina Onuorah who's a recent graduate, all I can say is there'll be drama if she gets a better reception than Carrie
The funny thing is thatās quite likely
pretty much everyone that isnāt one of her minions thought that Olivia was a better Veronica than Carrie. I wonder how sheāll treat her compared to Olivia...
Regarding Carrieās insta story on privilege, Iām very glad that she is more self aware of it.
I absolutely agree, that was so great to see. I hope it sticks, because she's been dancing around this and not quite getting it for a while.
I think itās very good of her to acknowledge her privilege, itās taken her too long but itās good sheās done it. I hope she really means it!
its something Iāve always disliked about her. Over time it has made me go off her as Iāve gotten older. Iām 23, started watching her at 14/15. I do lots of different things like Carrie, including YouTube & freelance work, so I get annoyed when she says itās just hard work that got her to where she is. I work hard too, but really Iām just doing okay-ish. My freelance/small business/YouTube is enough for me to survive, but Iām just scraping by with enough money each month. Iām very happy with what Iāve achieved but I also know that hard work isnāt enough. Itās who you are and who you know too. If I had 500,000 subs and/or a famous brother, so many things Iād love to do would be instantly possible. Itās not nice following someone who clearly has what she has from her privilege and she couldnt see that.
There is no doubt that she hasnāt worked hard to get to where she is, but itās definitely helped that sheās fallen in with the right crowd (friends, ex boyfriend, her brother, her parents) and itās a combination of everything thatās got her where she is. I first heard about her through other youtubers I watched and then saw her in her brothers wedding video. She has said before that she first got known because of her acting as a kid, but I donāt think anyone remembers the children stage actors. I saw Chitty around the time she would have been in it, but I didnāt find her youtube channel through that. That may have helped her get her stage work, but not her YouTube subs. Her YouTube subs came from 3 main things: starting before YouTube got big, dating Alex & her brother.
Shes been successful with her acting work because she did acting as a kid and had an audience already, she didnāt need to go to drama school like most do. She also doesnāt have to work a āproperā day job like most of her fellow actors do. Sheās okay if she doesnāt get work for a few months, because she has books that will definitely get published and YouTube money to help tide her over (all from being known on YouTube). Carrie can create her own opportunities if she wants to!
Her parents have been a huge help on this too, itās very obvious as both her and Tom have been successful from a young age.
I was close to unfollowing her, but maybe she will change & see how lucky she really is. Iām excited to see how she takes this
(Iām writing this on my phone, itās so horrible to do so. Sorry for any spelling mistakes
its something Iāve always disliked about her. Over time it has made me go off her as Iāve gotten older. Iām 23, started watching her at 14/15. I do lots of different things like Carrie, including YouTube & freelance work, so I get annoyed when she says itās just hard work that got her to where she is. I work hard too, but really Iām just doing okay-ish. My freelance/small business/YouTube is enough for me to survive, but Iām just scraping by with enough money each month. Iām very happy with what Iāve achieved but I also know that hard work isnāt enough. Itās who you are and who you know too. If I had 500,000 subs and/or a famous brother, so many things Iād love to do would be instantly possible. Itās not nice following someone who clearly has what she has from her privilege and she couldnt see that.
There is no doubt that she hasnāt worked hard to get to where she is, but itās definitely helped that sheās fallen in with the right crowd (friends, ex boyfriend, her brother, her parents) and itās a combination of everything thatās got her where she is. I first heard about her through other youtubers I watched and then saw her in her brothers wedding video. She has said before that she first got known because of her acting as a kid, but I donāt think anyone remembers the children stage actors. I saw Chitty around the time she would have been in it, but I didnāt find her youtube channel through that. That may have helped her get her stage work, but not her YouTube subs. Her YouTube subs came from 3 main things: starting before YouTube got big, dating Alex & her brother.
Shes been successful with her acting work because she did acting as a kid and had an audience already, she didnāt need to go to drama school like most do. She also doesnāt have to work a āproperā day job like most of her fellow actors do. Sheās okay if she doesnāt get work for a few months, because she has books that will definitely get published and YouTube money to help tide her over (all from being known on YouTube). Carrie can create her own opportunities if she wants to!
Her parents have been a huge help on this too, itās very obvious as both her and Tom have been successful from a young age.
I was close to unfollowing her, but maybe she will change & see how lucky she really is. Iām excited to see how she takes this
(Iām writing this on my phone, itās so horrible to do so. Sorry for any spelling mistakes
Her good for her but she is also doing it to save face
Itās hard to tell if sheās doing it for the right reasons though. Sheās been called out a lot for the way she treats her female costars so sheās pretty much damned either way unless she makes a YouTube video or a blog post about everything. I prefer video apologies because they canāt hide behind words and you can see in their eyes if they are being honest. As with any other youtuber who has been called out for bad behaviour, the noise and gossip gets louder and louder when the person thinks that by not saying anything it will go away. It wont go away completely but itāll begin to fade if she actually acknowledges her behaviour.
In comparison I give you the Colleen Ballinger scandal when she sent underwear to a 13 year old boy who she let run the Miranda Sings Twitter account for a couple of weeks with no pay unsupervised. It all went tits up when the kid tweeted something to the account that was offensive to the LGBTQ community. It then came out that an Irish teen called Adam had been manipulated by both Colleen and her friend Kory. Colleen went silent, refused to acknowledge anything and then more rumours started and the deep diving into her Twitter account and old videos. Horrible racist, abusive tweets and videos came to the surface from Colleen, Kory and her sister Rachel. Eventually Colleen realised that staying silent allowed people to dig deeper and she eventually apologised for some of the things she had been accused of. People still think sheās problematic but because she apologised a lot of it has been swept under the rug.
Now I am no way comparing Colleen and Carrie but it shows you what can happen when people stay silent in the wake of accusations. The noise is only going to get louder and people will be digging and digging trying to find the smoking gun.
Okay Carrie, calm down with the ālook at me, I am supportive of other womenā act. Itās very transparent. Weird how after all of this stuff about her not supporting other women in the industry, sheās now licking the arses of loads of women in theatre all of a sudden. She isnāt capable of being nice unless she needs to make herself look good. Sheās never been subtle with these things.
Itās kind of sad how much validation she needs from strangers on the internet. I think because the internet has been her life since she was young, her entire life and being revolves around her followers, how many she has, what they all think of her, and that she must please every single person. I think it might be because two of her jobs (author and vlogger) are dependent on her social media followers (say what she likes about being an author, she wouldnāt sell even 100 copies without her loyal followers because those books are awfully written). I think she needs to take a massive step back because one day she will regret how much time she has spent revolving her personality around what her followers think of her. She should start doing what a lot of influencers are doing and have āphone in the drawerā days.
What she doesnāt understand about boundaries is that she is responsible for them. Like, if someone has tweeted her something rude, itās up to you to block them. And she does that (but also blocks people for no reason). But she also needs to understand that she needs to put boundaries on herself. For example, she doesnāt like what she reads on here? It is HER responsibility to put a boundary up and stop looking. Itās that simple. Donāt complain that people are moaning about you but then keep looking and then moan that nobody respects your boundaries. Boundaries are your own responsibility and sometimes it means setting boundaries on other people (such as blocking people or restricting comments, as she does) but sometimes it means setting boundaries on yourself and not keep looking at something that pisses you off. Itās entirely on her. Boundaries arenāt magical spells that you can use to control other people, itās to help control your personal space and accessibility. And a lot of it is down to her but she doesnāt understand that yet. Long rant over.
Itās kind of sad how much validation she needs from strangers on the internet. I think because the internet has been her life since she was young, her entire life and being revolves around her followers, how many she has, what they all think of her, and that she must please every single person. I think it might be because two of her jobs (author and vlogger) are dependent on her social media followers (say what she likes about being an author, she wouldnāt sell even 100 copies without her loyal followers because those books are awfully written). I think she needs to take a massive step back because one day she will regret how much time she has spent revolving her personality around what her followers think of her. She should start doing what a lot of influencers are doing and have āphone in the drawerā days.
What she doesnāt understand about boundaries is that she is responsible for them. Like, if someone has tweeted her something rude, itās up to you to block them. And she does that (but also blocks people for no reason). But she also needs to understand that she needs to put boundaries on herself. For example, she doesnāt like what she reads on here? It is HER responsibility to put a boundary up and stop looking. Itās that simple. Donāt complain that people are moaning about you but then keep looking and then moan that nobody respects your boundaries. Boundaries are your own responsibility and sometimes it means setting boundaries on other people (such as blocking people or restricting comments, as she does) but sometimes it means setting boundaries on yourself and not keep looking at something that pisses you off. Itās entirely on her. Boundaries arenāt magical spells that you can use to control other people, itās to help control your personal space and accessibility. And a lot of it is down to her but she doesnāt understand that yet. Long rant over.
I'm glad she's slightly acknowledged her privilege but can't help but think all of this is saving face.
Cherry hasn't taken her video down (thankfully) so all those comments are still there for Carrie and everyone to see.
She really needs knocking down a peg or two.
Cherry hasn't taken her video down (thankfully) so all those comments are still there for Carrie and everyone to see.
She really needs knocking down a peg or two.
Completely agree. I see so many people post things about how someoneās boundaries shouldnāt really change what you see from them, but it should do. If someone wants to stop sharing so much about their family, the audience will notice they arenāt seeing certain people anymore. I used to watch Miss Budget Beauty and loads of people noticed when she stopped featuring her daughter in videos. Lots of people called her bad mum because they werenāt seeing the daughter anymore (thinking she favoured her son because they saw him more)- if anything I liked her more for respecting her daughter boundaries.Okay Carrie, calm down with the ālook at me, I am supportive of other womenā act. Itās very transparent. Weird how after all of this stuff about her not supporting other women in the industry, sheās now licking the arses of loads of women in theatre all of a sudden. She isnāt capable of being nice unless she needs to make herself look good. Sheās never been subtle with these things.
Itās kind of sad how much validation she needs from strangers on the internet. I think because the internet has been her life since she was young, her entire life and being revolves around her followers, how many she has, what they all think of her, and that she must please every single person. I think it might be because two of her jobs (author and vlogger) are dependent on her social media followers (say what she likes about being an author, she wouldnāt sell even 100 copies without her loyal followers because those books are awfully written). I think she needs to take a massive step back because one day she will regret how much time she has spent revolving her personality around what her followers think of her. She should start doing what a lot of influencers are doing and have āphone in the drawerā days.
What she doesnāt understand about boundaries is that she is responsible for them. Like, if someone has tweeted her something rude, itās up to you to block them. And she does that (but also blocks people for no reason). But she also needs to understand that she needs to put boundaries on herself. For example, she doesnāt like what she reads on here? It is HER responsibility to put a boundary up and stop looking. Itās that simple. Donāt complain that people are moaning about you but then keep looking and then moan that nobody respects your boundaries. Boundaries are your own responsibility and sometimes it means setting boundaries on other people (such as blocking people or restricting comments, as she does) but sometimes it means setting boundaries on yourself and not keep looking at something that pisses you off. Itās entirely on her. Boundaries arenāt magical spells that you can use to control other people, itās to help control your personal space and accessibility. And a lot of it is down to her but she doesnāt understand that yet. Long rant over.
Carrie said she wasnāt going to do a tour of her house and she has stuck to that but we have seen the layout of her downstairs and she has vlogged walking home. Anyone who knows the area would probably find her house quite quickly using the info she has put out there. Tbh even her brother and sister in law have shown too much of the front of their house (at least they are in a gated community).
When it comes her internet boundaries none of them make any sense. She blocks people saying harmless things to save her mental health and then feeds the trolls who deserve to be blocked and calls them out. At least she deleted her tiktok- Iāve said it before and Iāll say it again DELETE YOUR TWITTER ACCOUNT CARRIE AND BLOCK THE WEBSITES THAT TALK ABOUT YOU! You canāt stop people from talking about you, but you donāt have to listen to it. She obsessively read about herself on GG and posed as a āfanā to ācorrectā the gossip, and canāt seem to stop reading about herself on here. Youād think someone in her family wouldāve done some sort of social media intervention with her by now! She needs a better therapist if she has one at all because I believe her mental health is in the toilet!
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Definitely saving face with the stories today. The repost of Lucie Jones couldnāt be more blatant if she tried. I wish she didnāt feel the need to hammer us over the head with it. I get it, she wants to defend herself, but canāt she just let the occasional thing go? If she knows - as she claims - in her āheart of heartsā that sheās a good person, why on earth does it matter so much that a few people disagree?
Also sheās definitely indulging a Barbra Streisand effect (the effect of drawing attention to something by trying to conceal it) by continuing to go on and on about it.
Also sheās definitely indulging a Barbra Streisand effect (the effect of drawing attention to something by trying to conceal it) by continuing to go on and on about it.
It's all a bit try hard, isn't it?
Stop me if Iām being daft here, but this doesnāt make much sense with the lyrics does it?
ābad Cinderella, Cinderella is the catty name that they call meā- surely implies Cinderella is the catty name?
As is the case in the Disney versions, where her name is actually Ella.
Thatās what I thought! They nickname her āCinderellaā because she is covered in cinders from all the housework she does. Sheās called Ella and āCinderellaā is the catty name they call her. Unless itās specifically stated otherwise in the show but... why?
The lyrics to that whole song are a shambles and it should be chucked out of the show.
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