Oh really glad to have found this! Personally I find most of the BOPO community toxic and disgusting - not the original movement and the meanings of it, but the ‘influencers’ that have jumped on board and now use it as an excuse to be lazy fat bastards!
I’m a fat person, and it was really refreshing to find the likes of Poppy Adams and Jess on the plus size, I think I when I followed them they were around a size 20/22, which is the same size I was. They were wearing clothes that a typical fatty wouldn’t wear, and their confidence was amazing and to be fair, they did make me feel more confident in wearing what I wanted and not what society wants to see a fat person in. Fast forward a few years and omg -they’re both nearly size 30, seem to have no motivation and are both unhealthily obsessed with food. I’ll give Jess credit, she doesn’t hide her size and I think appears pretty genuine, Poppy on the other hand - she’s hidden her size for ages, what’s BOPO about using strategic angles and photos to make yourself appear smaller? She likes to ‘keep it real’ with ‘ugly’ face photos, but hides the size of her massive stomach! So infuriating...
Just to add, they appear even more toxic when one of them even insinuates that they want to lose weight and become more healthy, the whole ‘community’ turns against them. Surely if they were really friends they would encourage each other to be as healthy as someone wants to be. They all blow my mind.
I’m a fat person, and it was really refreshing to find the likes of Poppy Adams and Jess on the plus size, I think I when I followed them they were around a size 20/22, which is the same size I was. They were wearing clothes that a typical fatty wouldn’t wear, and their confidence was amazing and to be fair, they did make me feel more confident in wearing what I wanted and not what society wants to see a fat person in. Fast forward a few years and omg -they’re both nearly size 30, seem to have no motivation and are both unhealthily obsessed with food. I’ll give Jess credit, she doesn’t hide her size and I think appears pretty genuine, Poppy on the other hand - she’s hidden her size for ages, what’s BOPO about using strategic angles and photos to make yourself appear smaller? She likes to ‘keep it real’ with ‘ugly’ face photos, but hides the size of her massive stomach! So infuriating...
Just to add, they appear even more toxic when one of them even insinuates that they want to lose weight and become more healthy, the whole ‘community’ turns against them. Surely if they were really friends they would encourage each other to be as healthy as someone wants to be. They all blow my mind.